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Girl troubles...again
Topic Started: Jul 9 2013, 06:08 AM (431 Views)
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Okay, so I just found out this girl has a crush on me. I felt like I had a crush on her for a while, but the second she told me she has a crush on me...that's when I started to second guess my feelings. Thoughts? Opinions? Advice?
Gonna dropkick it.
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There's no harm in testing the waters. Go on a date and see how it goes. What have you really got to lose?
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I agree with Gravecrawler, go on a date with the girl and see if you'd like to go out with her. Trust me don't pass this opportunity up because if you do you'll be left asking "Why didn't I give her a chance?" And even if things don't work out then you can say at least we've tried right? :)
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I just can't stay out of trouble with girls, can I?

THE SITUATION:

So I have a crush on this girl, who doesn't like me "that way". Okay, nothing new to the world.

But here's where the problem comes in. This other girl I really dislike (She dumped a guy for another guy, then dumped THAT guy for the first guy and repeated the cycle about 3 times) is showing interest in me. I also don't know what they think of each other, so it's even more dangerous waters.

The way I see it, there's no way I can win in this. What do you guys think I should do?
Gonna dropkick it.
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I would try to stay clear from the girl you dislike, it sounds like she has way too many issues when it comes to relationships. I would also try to find someone else, make new friends and look for love somewhere else. It sucks having a crush on someone who doesn't share the same feelings, I've been there a few times. But since she just wants friendship from you I would hold that close if I was in this situation. Plus best friends could possibly end up being more than that in the future, she could develop feelings for you later on in life. So in the end, don't talk to the crazy chick that can't keep a relationship but do hang out with the girl you like and seek love somewhere else. I wish you the best of luck with this situation and do tell us what happens.
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Aug 30 2013, 06:33 PM
I would try to stay clear from the girl you dislike, it sounds like she has way too many issues when it comes to relationships. I would also try to find someone else, make new friends and look for love somewhere else. It sucks having a crush on someone who doesn't share the same feelings, I've been there a few times. But since she just wants friendship from you I would hold that close if I was in this situation. Plus best friends could possibly end up being more than that in the future, she could develop feelings for you later on in life. So in the end, don't talk to the crazy chick that can't keep a relationship but do hang out with the girl you like and seek love somewhere else. I wish you the best of luck with this situation and do tell us what happens.
Ugh...ditto. Why date someone you think you hate? Pretty silly.
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Raven pretty much summed it up.

But I will give you my word of advice:

When it comes to the girl you dislike, I recommend you stay away from her. She sounds like she is prone to screwing people over, so I would just avoid her all together. As for the girl you do like, I know how it feels when you like someone and they don't like you back.
It sucks.

A lot.

But you gotta just erase her from your mind, and move on. It seems difficult, but it is really that simple. You will find the right person. It just takes some time, and I realize that sounds really corny, but it's true.
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as old as I think you may be, why bother? the majority of relationships at an early age is primarily experimentation, and most lead to failure anyway. I'd say, avoid the heartbreak and drama. Enjoy life and worry about people pulling your heartstrings later.
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Aug 30 2013, 10:31 PM
as old as I think you may be, why bother? the majority of relationships at an early age is primarily experimentation, and most lead to failure anyway. I'd say, avoid the heartbreak and drama. Enjoy life and worry about people pulling your heartstrings later.
Experience is great in relationships, that's what they are about. To know what you want, what you like, what you prefer; how would you figure if you had never experienced it before? I wouldn't recommend anyone to get one since getting a break up is one of the worst feelings (but since it probably won't be serious, the pain won't be "serious" either), but if you're going to get a relationship with that attitude anyway, you might as well not do it. Doesn't matter how old you may be, you learn a LOT from previous relationships.
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Aug 30 2013, 06:33 PM
I would try to stay clear from the girl you dislike, it sounds like she has way too many issues when it comes to relationships. I would also try to find someone else, make new friends and look for love somewhere else. It sucks having a crush on someone who doesn't share the same feelings, I've been there a few times. But since she just wants friendship from you I would hold that close if I was in this situation. Plus best friends could possibly end up being more than that in the future, she could develop feelings for you later on in life. So in the end, don't talk to the crazy chick that can't keep a relationship but do hang out with the girl you like and seek love somewhere else. I wish you the best of luck with this situation and do tell us what happens.
I agree with this. In my experience, those kind of girls are just trouble and nothing good can come of it
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