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Relationships.
Topic Started: Jul 5 2013, 05:10 PM (414 Views)
Nico Yazawa
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So I need some help. I'm currently conflicted. You see, I like a lot of people at the same time. I like one lovely girl, we'll call her Apple. I like Apple a lot but then I also like another girl, we'll call her Banana. The thing is, me and Apple dated before but she decided she wasn't ready for a relationship yet and she still had some problems she had to figure out with herself. I still miss Apple a lot. And about Banana, she likes me and I like her. But Banana is already in a relationship.

I was going to stay single for awhile. And I'm trying to do that, but I dunno. I just feel conflicted. What should I do? ><
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Ravenfreak
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I'd set down and reflect on what you would like to do currently, if you would like to be single a bit longer it could give enough time for Banana to become single and you could go out with her... or if you really deeply care for Apple and would like to give it another shot and are up for being in a committed relationship ASAP then perhaps you can see if she's ready for a relationship now. I'd think about the pros and cons of being single/or being in a relationship before deciding on what you will do.
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Nico Yazawa
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Okay! Thank you. <3 I'll try and think about it. I think I'll try to stay single for just a little bit longer, but thanks for your advice. I'll see what else I can do.
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Jace Beleren
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Apples are better than Bananas.

If a relationship doesn't work out the first time, it's not likely to work out the next time. I dated a girl and we broke up four times over the course of three years, two were for a few months, one was short, and one was the end.

Circumstances change and nothing is concrete when it comes to relationships and the advice people can give. All you can do is what you think is best and hope it's right. But in my experience, yeah, it's not likely to work out if it didn't work out the first time.

The problem is when it's not you that does the breaking up, because when you're the one that gets broken up with, you're the one left longing, usually. So it's easy to cling back to what once was. But that doesn't mean they won't go back to feeling the way before and end it again, only causing more hurt.

Good luck.
Edited by Jace Beleren, Jul 7 2013, 07:32 PM.
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That's not always the case, in fact my current girlfriend and I have dated before in the past and we broke it off. Not even a year after that we got back together, and we've been going strong for 4 years now. But this is different for everyone. Do keep us updated Miku and I hope you end up with one of them in the future. :)
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Jul 8 2013, 05:23 AM
That's not always the case, in fact my current girlfriend and I have dated before in the past and we broke it off. Not even a year after that we got back together, and we've been going strong for 4 years now. But this is different for everyone. Do keep us updated Miku and I hope you end up with one of them in the future. :)
I thought I mentioned that somewhere in my post. Or maybe I forgot. *shrug* Anyway, It's true what you say.
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I'm with Banana now. I still miss Apple, a lot. But Apple is in a relationship and as much as I miss her, I'm okay with that. I want her to be happy. But the issue is now I like another person..we'll call him orange. He's really cute and affectionate and whenever I talk to him I get butterflies and i'm aware of what this makes me sound like, it makes me sound like..a bad person and I'm sure this is giving me a bad reputation. But I just fall for people easily >,<
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Congrats on getting Banana! Since you are in a relationship, I would definitely suggest that you stay faithful. If anything was to happen and say you and banana break it off later you could possibly always go for some orange later. :P In all seriousness I wish you and your lovely girl a happy relationship. Also don't feel bad, at one point in life i was falling for some girls left and right. It's most likely a phase, because since I've been in a relationship I haven't really fallen for anyone else. Sure I do have a few crushes but I only love one girl of course.
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Congrats on getting Banana, man! I hope the relationship lasts forever and ever and ever.
Gonna dropkick it.
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Aw thank you guys!! <3 I'm really happy with Banana.
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