Trouble with a girl

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Trouble with a girl
Tweet Topic Started: Jan 17 2013, 06:11 PM (997 Views)
BLOPS2	Jan 17 2013, 06:11 PM Post #1
Walkers, Walkers everywhere Posts: 258 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #13,213 Joined: August 21, 2012 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Xbox Live Gamertag: RedCommander98 Steam ID: Kotor9803 Game Currently Playing: Blockland	Remember that girl I mentioned a few threads ago? Well, turns out we're pretty good friends now. She likes some other guys, and she told one of them on facebook last night. She knows that I like her (and when I say like, I mean like a crush, in case you're wondering) and I encourged her to tell them and assured them that'd they'd say yes and if they didn't then I'd be there for her to talk to. She then called me her 'rock' Personally, I don't know what the hell she means by that. Can someone please elaborate?
	Gonna dropkick it.


[Mika] Gumi	Jan 17 2013, 06:13 PM Post #2
Sandopolis Act 2 Posts: 2,338 Group: S Rank Hero Member #13,165 Joined: July 28, 2012 Gender: Female Game Currently Playing: Assassin's Creed IV: Black Flag	Oh, that's easy. You're someone she can depend on. The analogy is that sometimes she might feel like she's drowning from the pressures of/weight of life. You're the "rock" that keeps her from drowning or going insane. Make sense?
	"I never felt truly alive unless I was staring death in the face." -Solid Snake _{~All Art Belongs to the VG Cats Comic by Scott Ramsoomair~}


BLOPS2	Jan 17 2013, 06:14 PM Post #3
Walkers, Walkers everywhere Posts: 258 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #13,213 Joined: August 21, 2012 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Xbox Live Gamertag: RedCommander98 Steam ID: Kotor9803 Game Currently Playing: Blockland	Kinda, just not sure where she's going with it.
	Gonna dropkick it.


[Mika] Gumi	Jan 17 2013, 06:16 PM Post #4
Sandopolis Act 2 Posts: 2,338 Group: S Rank Hero Member #13,165 Joined: July 28, 2012 Gender: Female Game Currently Playing: Assassin's Creed IV: Black Flag	I'm...pretty sure that's deep in the "friend zone" territory. It's not the same for everyone, but she either really likes you or you're just a really good friend to her. Seeing as how she seems to like other people, it looks like a "friend zone" deal.
	"I never felt truly alive unless I was staring death in the face." -Solid Snake _{~All Art Belongs to the VG Cats Comic by Scott Ramsoomair~}


BLOPS2	Jan 17 2013, 06:17 PM Post #5
Walkers, Walkers everywhere Posts: 258 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #13,213 Joined: August 21, 2012 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Xbox Live Gamertag: RedCommander98 Steam ID: Kotor9803 Game Currently Playing: Blockland	Well that sucks more than Duke Nukem Forever :/
	Gonna dropkick it.


Jace Beleren	Jan 17 2013, 07:18 PM Post #6
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 143 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #13,328 Joined: November 28, 2012 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: EPIC_TUN Xbox Live Gamertag: TheUltimateNavi Steam ID: theimmortaldarkness	Hey, that game had some decency to it. I still think It's funny and a decent shooter. I may not be a girl but I have some experience in dealing with them. Shapeshiftress is right, you're in the friend zone. If she hasn't acknowledged it when you told her you crushed on her, it either means one of two things. One, she's waiting on you to make a move, or two, she's trying not to hurt your feelings by telling you no. The best thing for you to do is ask her out. Ask her to go out on a date, movie, dinner, video games at eithers house, whatever tickles her fancy. If she says yes, boom, done. If she says no, ask her why. Be wary, though, if you ask for honesty you could get your feelings hurt. Good luck with that.
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Eren Jaeger	Jan 17 2013, 07:27 PM Post #7
"I will kill ALL of the Titans!" Posts: 2,305 Group: S Rank Hero Member #12,433 Joined: October 2, 2011 Gender: Male	Endevous Jan 17 2013, 06:17 PM Well that sucks more than Duke Nukem Forever :/ Would like if I could. Lol. But what'd I do is go ahead and throw all the chips in. She knows you like her, ask her out. What harm would it do? It'd at least get you your answer. You could do this over a friendly conversation or you could get her in an emotional conversation, like, the next time she confides in you about the guys that she likes. But sorry dude, you're deep in the Friend Zone. No cell reception deep. You know you are when she talks to you about guys that she likes. Especially since she knows you like her. But admitting you like her already, the hard part's out the way. Go for it dewd.
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Jace Beleren	Jan 17 2013, 07:38 PM Post #8
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 143 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #13,328 Joined: November 28, 2012 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: EPIC_TUN Xbox Live Gamertag: TheUltimateNavi Steam ID: theimmortaldarkness	Not necessarily Stark. There was a girl who was my friend who talked a lot about other guys to me. She later asked me out and admitted that she was trying to get me interested by doing so.
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Eren Jaeger	Jan 17 2013, 07:40 PM Post #9
"I will kill ALL of the Titans!" Posts: 2,305 Group: S Rank Hero Member #12,433 Joined: October 2, 2011 Gender: Male	Or she could be a complete mind****, as Withering just stated. :I
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Jace Beleren	Jan 17 2013, 07:43 PM Post #10
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 143 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #13,328 Joined: November 28, 2012 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: EPIC_TUN Xbox Live Gamertag: TheUltimateNavi Steam ID: theimmortaldarkness	Stark Jan 17 2013, 07:40 PM Or she could be a complete mind****, as Withering just stated. :I And if this is the case, I strongly recommend removing this bitch from your life. Pardon my language.
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Eren Jaeger	Jan 17 2013, 07:57 PM Post #11
"I will kill ALL of the Titans!" Posts: 2,305 Group: S Rank Hero Member #12,433 Joined: October 2, 2011 Gender: Male	True. If she's having problems being up front now, then you're relationship will be shady and horrible most likely. I wouldn't say remove her completely, but definitely stop trying to date her.
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Lord Pianta	Jan 18 2013, 05:51 AM Post #12
Il Piantissimo Posts: 3,320 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,741 Joined: February 7, 2009 Gender: Male Nintendo ID: Piantab	The friend zone is hard to escape from. I'd say your chances are nihil... but yeah. The girl trusts you enough as a friend, but not as a lover, possibly. Things can change though, but seeing as she's already interested in another guy, you're likely the second option, if you catch my drift. I know it sucks to hear, but it's a little bit too late to ask her out. If she knows already that you have a crush on her and doesn't do anything about it except being friends - then I'd say she isn't very interested. If you'd ask her out now, your friendship might be at risk. She might think you're joking because you waited so long, and because you know she likes this other dude. If I were you, I'd keep a low profile. If things don't work out between her and the guy, be there for her. Be the most perfect man she can't resist. Girls love that shit.
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Lord Talancir D'Landior	Jan 18 2013, 07:12 AM Post #13
~ RP Knight ~ Posts: 2,394 Group: Former Monarchs Member #2,592 Joined: September 26, 2007 Gender: Male Game Currently Playing: All the games. All of it.	You know, this conversation reminded me of:
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YamiShadow	Jan 18 2013, 08:58 AM Post #14
Flying Battery Act 1 Posts: 918 Group: C Rank Hero Member #12,994 Joined: May 25, 2012 Gender: Male Country: Canada Game Currently Playing: Final Fantasy X HD	Argh. I'm what you call a beginner, but at this point I think it's fair to say that literally the only advice possible to give is to ask her out. I don't know how else to put it, but if you don't try, there is literally no chance. If you do try... Well, that all depends on what she says. Don't start thinking in terms of friendzone, or else you'll be putting yourself wayyyyy deeper into that very pit. Be sure you really like her before you try anything, though. This is a veeerryyyy precarious matter.
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BLOPS2	Jan 18 2013, 02:10 PM Post #15
Walkers, Walkers everywhere Posts: 258 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #13,213 Joined: August 21, 2012 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Xbox Live Gamertag: RedCommander98 Steam ID: Kotor9803 Game Currently Playing: Blockland	Turns out I'm friend zoned. But I'm waiting, and watching in the wings. /ArkhamCityJokes
	Gonna dropkick it.


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