Multiple Problems/Issues

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Multiple Problems/Issues
Tweet Topic Started: Apr 29 2012, 01:36 PM (294 Views)
Devy The Mutt	Apr 29 2012, 01:36 PM Post #1
'Ello, lad! Posts: 2,631 Group: E Rank Legend Member #12,660 Joined: December 29, 2011 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Steam ID: mxnneurosis Game Currently Playing: Oddworld: Abe's Oddysey	Okay, I have a multiple amount of problems. I'll list them below and then, give a brief explanation on them. 1. Parents - I've tried to tell them in a polite way, I've even screamed the shit out of them to leave me alone and let me be responsible for my own life, but they won't. When I tell them to stop nosing into my business, they say "no" like a three year old and continue. I may be a juvenile, but I do have some responsibilities for myself and I have some freedom because of my age. 2. Crush - There's a very smart, pretty girl at my school that has so much in common with me. She loves Breaking Benjamin, Three Days Grace, Nirvana, Tool, a bunch of metal, anime, and she has a great personality. She even likes the Sonic Archie Comics like me. All I'm asking is...how can I approach her to ask her out without pissing my pants (not literally) or feel like I'm going to explode. I also hate hearing the answer "I'm taken." 3. I want to make this forum for what I love most, Breaking Benjamin, but I'm not sure what server to use. A lot of people use ZetaBoards, but I want to be an oddball and use a server that's very reliable. Any suggestions? 4. There's a variety show coming up at school and I want to sing. I'm used to singing in front of other people in my voice class and people love my voice, but I'm scared to sing in front of hundreds. And I don't want to be alone up there. I want to be with someone who can play acoustic, or a band. Any help? Well, that's all. I'm undergoing major stress and I think you guys can help me out. Malachi, out.
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Wallace	Apr 29 2012, 02:58 PM Post #2
Break out the L-word. The other L-word. Posts: 1,889 Group: S Rank Hero Member #11,873 Joined: February 24, 2011	I can only help with one of these problems. As a matter of fact, I'm currently dealing with your first one. But as for the one I can help: 2. Afraid she might be taken? There are numerous ways to find out if she is, if you're creative, that don't involve directly asking her. If she isn't taken, there is only one thing I can say: Ask her out. There's no special thing to this, really, you just need to straight-up ask her. Trust me, if there was some secret thing you could do that would make it any easier, everyone would probably know about it by now. Just be yourself, and be confident about yourself. Not much else to say.
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Devy The Mutt	Apr 29 2012, 04:04 PM Post #3
'Ello, lad! Posts: 2,631 Group: E Rank Legend Member #12,660 Joined: December 29, 2011 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Steam ID: mxnneurosis Game Currently Playing: Oddworld: Abe's Oddysey	Thanks, crosses out checklist
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Fwiss	May 2 2012, 02:55 AM Post #4
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,567 Group: S Rank Hero Member #9,080 Joined: June 18, 2008 Gender: Male Steam ID: fwiss1174	1. That's horribly vague. I can't really help. What are they doing specifically? 2. Ask her out to a movie or something. Don't even use the word out. Just 'want to see a movie Xday?' I was asked by a girl via proxy person. I don't know how that happened but I assume it might work the right way around. And remember: the worst thing she can say to you is 'no, I don't want to' or 'no, I have a BF.' If she says something mean, you probably wouldn't want to go out anyway, though you don't talk about her like she's mean. 4. Many schools have a band or chorus program. Ask around. No one here can help you with that.
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Devy The Mutt	May 2 2012, 06:37 AM Post #5
'Ello, lad! Posts: 2,631 Group: E Rank Legend Member #12,660 Joined: December 29, 2011 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Steam ID: mxnneurosis Game Currently Playing: Oddworld: Abe's Oddysey	True...true. That's three down...one to go... Fwiss May 2 2012, 02:55 AM 1. That's horribly vague. I can't really help. What are they doing specifically? They act like they don't trust me at all. They think because of what I did that I can't be trusted with anything. Edited by Devy The Mutt, May 2 2012, 06:51 AM.
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Nico Yazawa	May 2 2012, 12:52 PM Post #6
Lava Reef Act 2 Posts: 3,958 Group: D Rank Legend Member #12,454 Joined: October 10, 2011 Gender: Undisclosed Game Currently Playing: tales of symphonia	Well, if they can't trust you with anything, have you tried proving your trust to them? I understand that can be frustrating but, what exactly do they not trust you with? You are going to have to elaborate if you want more advice.. if you elaborate I can give you advice on how you can make them trust you on those certain things.
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Devy The Mutt	May 3 2012, 06:45 AM Post #7
'Ello, lad! Posts: 2,631 Group: E Rank Legend Member #12,660 Joined: December 29, 2011 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Steam ID: mxnneurosis Game Currently Playing: Oddworld: Abe's Oddysey	Well, the thing they can't trust me over is confidential. If you really wanna hear it, I'd have to PM you.
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`TakeCare	May 3 2012, 09:58 AM Post #8
-sigh- Posts: 2,390 Group: S Rank Hero Member #9,520 Joined: November 29, 2008 Gender: Male 3DS Friend Code: ask Game Currently Playing: Smash 4	1. You're their child they want to take care of. Manner up and suck it up because it's their business to knowing about what's happening in your life. I may be over the edge in what I say next, since I don't know what you're living situation from the tl;dr version and one of your replies about trust or something. Anyone can live their own life however they want so you're free to do whatever you want so long as your take responsibility for whatever you do. BUT unless you're helping pay for the house or the rent of the apartment, it's your parent's place, not yours. They make the rules. You're living under their provisions. Their shelter. Their food. Their money. If it is THAT bad of an aggravation, then move out. It may sound good and easy on paper, but life isn't gonna be kind if you're not smart about it. So shut up and enjoy what you got, 'cause who knows, they may not kick you out once you graduate. =P Beside you're parents are obviously curious about your life? Why not throw them a bone and get your parents more involved? Not directly, of course, but in a communication stand point. They've lived longer and know the ropes of somethings that you may be taking for granted. Hell they could probably help you with #2 and maybe #4 if you just ask, just be mind of any generation gap. [/answer based off of tl;dr version]
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Devy The Mutt	May 3 2012, 10:32 AM Post #9
'Ello, lad! Posts: 2,631 Group: E Rank Legend Member #12,660 Joined: December 29, 2011 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Steam ID: mxnneurosis Game Currently Playing: Oddworld: Abe's Oddysey	Interesting. I like how you are so "straight to the point." Thanks, I kind of needed that slap in the face. I honestly need to snap back to reality. It's not a fantasy world and if life was a video game, it'd be 0.0 Rating. I just need to deal with it until I'm 18 or 21 because parents are still NOT IN CHARGE, but responsible for you until you're twenty one. I just need to deal with it and live life the best without defying their authority. You remind me of my old therapist, I think I got a new friend.
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KogaHarine	May 3 2012, 02:54 PM Post #10
The Black Swordsman Posts: 3,253 Group: E Rank Legend Member #7,594 Joined: April 19, 2008 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: Goldth 3DS Friend Code: 047386746636 Nintendo ID: KogaHarine Game Currently Playing: Fantasy Life	Polyamorous May 3 2012, 10:32 AM Interesting. I like how you are so "straight to the point." Thanks, I kind of needed that slap in the face. I honestly need to snap back to reality. It's not a fantasy world and if life was a video game, it'd be 0.0 Rating. I just need to deal with it until I'm 18 or 21 because parents are still NOT IN CHARGE, but responsible for you until you're twenty one. I just need to deal with it and live life the best without defying their authority. You remind me of my old therapist, I think I got a new friend. They're still in charge up until you move out whether you like it or not.It's a fact of life that's unavoidable. Let me just say this. If you think everything is going to be fine when you move out you've got another thing coming. It's not easy to live on your own. Not only do you have to worry about bills and such you also have to worry about taking care of yourself. That fridge that is more than likely full right now will be empty most of the time. I live from paycheck to paycheck and have to hope that my next one will be enough to cover everything. And if it isn't then I have to make budget cuts and guess where those cuts get taken from. There are many a night where I've had to deal with just ramen noodles. I've even gone for a month with just that and trust me you really start to rethink how you spend money when all you eat is noodles. Life isn't easy and living on your own (although rewarding if done right) is no walk in the park. Don't be delusioned that it's gonna get easier. It only gets harder the older you get.



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