How to keep emotions stable

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How to keep emotions stable; I got myself in a jam yesterday.. ^^;
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Clementine	Mar 11 2012, 01:38 PM Post #1
Yep. Posts: 1,397 Group: A Rank Hero Member #12,099 Joined: May 26, 2011 Steam ID: Maximus123458 Game Currently Playing: Megaman X6	Please read this through, i'm serious here. In 2009, i met a certain girl on another forum that i frequent. We became friends, our relationship slowly expanding until 1-2 month(s) earlier, we become an internet couple. All was going swell, that is until... Yesterday, i accidently screwed up our relationship. I offended and insulted her, which made her cry and completely mad at me. Whenever she was online, she would completely ignore my presence. This, drived my emotions wild. Minutes ago, i literally teared up thinking about the fact we wouldn't be a couple or even friends anymore. Whenever i think about it, i can't keep a straight face. Do you guys know how i can keep my emotions stable without getting pissed off when she's online and ignoring me? I truly need some help at least getting my mind off the bad things.



Lady BlizShadow	Mar 11 2012, 01:59 PM Post #2
I still can't use this. Posts: 6,546 Group: Former Monarchs Member #6,722 Joined: March 16, 2008	One must ask the question why you're pissed off that she's ignoring you. It's no secret; she's ignoring you because you admitted to verbally abusing her. You've got no reason to be mad at her subsequent reaction. If anything, the best advice would be for you to do the same, to step away from the situation entirely. You're in no position to be making choices stemming from this point forward, because you're still caught in the whirlwind of the incident. So try your best to avoid her and give yourself some time to settle down and think.
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Nico Yazawa	Mar 11 2012, 03:01 PM Post #3
Lava Reef Act 2 Posts: 3,958 Group: D Rank Legend Member #12,454 Joined: October 10, 2011 Gender: Undisclosed Game Currently Playing: tales of symphonia	I'd just say, to give her some time maybe. I'm not that good at giving advice like this but I'll try my best. Theres a reason shes ignoring you and all. And its obvious, yeah. You just have to either give her time, or talk to her yourself and just, talk to her I guess. Like I said I really suck at giving advice like this, or any advice in general. I know this advice isn't very helpful and I'm sorry for that.
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KogaHarine	Mar 11 2012, 04:13 PM Post #4
The Black Swordsman Posts: 3,253 Group: E Rank Legend Member #7,594 Joined: April 19, 2008 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: Goldth 3DS Friend Code: 047386746636 Nintendo ID: KogaHarine Game Currently Playing: Fantasy Life	The best thing to do is to give her some space. Don't think about it and act like nothing has happened. She will come back around once she's let off some steam. Although you'd better be ready with a huge apology. Also don't go to her. Let her come to you. The worst thing you can do is to go and piss her off even more. Also Bliz is right. You don't have any reason to be angry when you were the instigator of the incident. You should be feeling some remorse because now you may have lost her. Basically right now all you can do is just sit and wait. Give her a few days. Trust me she will talk to you and you two can sort things out then. However you need to remember to listen to what she has to say and make reasonable decisions and answers otherwise you may dig yourself into a deeper hole. When you talk to her remain calm and think clearly about what you say.



Clementine	Mar 12 2012, 02:42 AM Post #5
Yep. Posts: 1,397 Group: A Rank Hero Member #12,099 Joined: May 26, 2011 Steam ID: Maximus123458 Game Currently Playing: Megaman X6	Yeah, i taken your advice and decided to simply wait until she will calm herself. Of course, i know i was the cause of that happening. I was just in panic and tried to talk to her to somehow make up, i've never been in an actual relationship before so i wouldn't know what to do. Although now that i regained my composure, i'll wait.



snow toilet	Mar 12 2012, 09:10 PM Post #6
Huffing Kitty Litty Posts: 796 Group: E Rank Hero Member #11,631 Joined: December 7, 2010 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: SnowToilet Nintendo ID: MegaVectorman Game Currently Playing: Parasite Eve	Max Mar 11 2012, 01:38 PM i literally teared up thinking about the fact we wouldn't be a couple or even friends anymore. Whenever i think about it, i can't keep a straight face. Oh yeah, I've had that happen before. What did I do? I watched Seinfeld and played ridiculously impossible shmups, made possible by Japan. If you keep your mind on the little bullets that cover 90% of your screen and remember that a SEGA Saturn controller is made of cheap plastic you'll be A-OK!! Either that or try Looney Tunes.



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