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What do you look for...; in a significant other. ^_^
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KogaHarine	Sep 22 2011, 08:52 AM Post #1
The Black Swordsman Posts: 3,253 Group: E Rank Legend Member #7,594 Joined: April 19, 2008 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: Goldth 3DS Friend Code: 047386746636 Nintendo ID: KogaHarine Game Currently Playing: Fantasy Life	So yeah we've been having a lot of relationship talk as of late. And it got me to thinking that there are a lot of people on SB that like to talk about relationships, love, and all the other things that are a part of a relationship (Well not all the other things but that's cause that would just be inappropriate). So my question to you all is this: What do you look for in a significant other? You don't have to go into detail. Just give us a basic idea of what you look for. I personally have a very high interest in relationships (as you all should know by now) and I'm very relationship oriented. Not really going to go into detail just yet about myself. Tookalotofcouragetogetaroundtomakingthistopic

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KogaHarine	Sep 26 2011, 02:09 PM Post #31
The Black Swordsman Posts: 3,253 Group: E Rank Legend Member #7,594 Joined: April 19, 2008 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: Goldth 3DS Friend Code: 047386746636 Nintendo ID: KogaHarine Game Currently Playing: Fantasy Life	DarkOverord Sep 26 2011, 11:59 AM Star of Infinity Sep 26 2011, 10:17 AM Personally I think I'm a clingy guy. At least I've been told that but to me I like being with the person I am dating as much as I can. And I like talking to that person as much as I can just to hear their voice at least once during the day will be enough to make me happy. So long as you remember to give now and then. It's one thing to be clingy, another to smother your other half. People in general will need some alone time. Not if they're down, but sometimes it's easier to unwind in your own way than with someone else. This is an important thing in the end. Just remember that. It's a big 'un. Well I know that I need to do that from time to time. I wouldn't want them to feel like they can't be their own person.



Amarok	Sep 26 2011, 02:13 PM Post #32
Fear the cold... Posts: 1,571 Group: S Rank Hero Member #11,292 Joined: July 31, 2010 Gender: Male Country: United States of America 3DS Friend Code: 4639-9449-9700 Nintendo ID: EzekialWolffe Game Currently Playing: The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword	Yuuri Airi Sep 26 2011, 10:23 AM Another thing on looks, and I don't know if this is standard fact or just a coincidence, but I've never been attracted to black guys. Never. It just doesn't... I dunno. It sounds racist to say, but it's true. Huh, this reminds me of my thing for dyed hair. It doesn't mean that my signifigant other needs red or blue hair, it just means that I like it.
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L Dragon	Sep 26 2011, 02:23 PM Post #33
Chaos Emerald Posts: 691 Group: S Rank Knight Member #746 Joined: March 19, 2007	SHE MUST BE ASIAN!!! THE END!!! On a serious note, I don't know... I kinda have this thinking that I'd know who she'll be when I meet, or when the timing is right for us to be. Well actually, the one thing that I look for is her faith. Does she trust in God and have a bonding relationship with God like I do. Without that any relationship will crumble for me. So in a sense, we would have to have a passion for God. Tis my number one thing I look for. SIDE NOTE: But I do love Asians girls! Oh my they are cuuuuuuute! But yeah, whatever God has for me. He knows what I liiiiiiike Edited by L Dragon, Sep 26 2011, 02:23 PM.
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[Kanon]	Sep 26 2011, 03:27 PM Post #34
Azn to the max. Posts: 231 Group: C Rank Guardian Member #12,299 Joined: August 1, 2011	Lilfate Sep 26 2011, 02:23 PM SHE MUST BE ASIAN!!! THE END!!! SIDE NOTE: But I do love Asians girls! Oh my they are cuuuuuuute! But yeah, whatever God has for me. He knows what I liiiiiiike I hate Azn girls. I've actually developed this phobia about being in a relationship with them because most of the Azn chicks I've dated end up being psychos.



L Dragon	Sep 26 2011, 03:50 PM Post #35
Chaos Emerald Posts: 691 Group: S Rank Knight Member #746 Joined: March 19, 2007	Oh for real?... Huh... I guess Asians aren't mystically different than another other girl from any other race... Haha, my theory just got popped.
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Ellis	Sep 27 2011, 06:10 AM Post #36
Pint of real ale please squire! Posts: 819 Group: D Rank Hero Member #10,661 Joined: January 6, 2010 Playstation Network ID: Speedy171	What do i look for? Is she an heiress to a brewery and aged between 18 and 30.. hmmmm Never really gave it deep thought of what i look for to be honest, as to me, when you're attracted to someone it's all part of the (to me fun) process of learning about each other. But it's a pretty basic list, someone who has manners, isn't abrupt and can tune into my sense of humour. Really can't stand ill manners, even down to the basics of saying hello/hows things when starting to talk to you on text or whatever, rather then launching into whatever you've got to say. Last long term girlfriend was real nice girl, some things we were chalk and cheese like going to gigs and stuff but we talked plenty both open minded about stuff and other things was good as well if you get my drift ;o) So yeah guess it's that i look for in a woman, someone who we can be really good friends but just that little bit special. And hopefully not get too pally with one of her own friends and end up cheating.... ho hum!
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Lady Miracle	Sep 28 2011, 05:31 PM Post #37
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	Vionneta Sep 26 2011, 03:27 PM I hate Azn girls. I've actually developed this phobia about being in a relationship with them because most of the Azn chicks I've dated end up being psychos. I will ask you to be less prejudiced, as we may have some Asian members here. And even if we don't, that's just downright rude. Anyway, I guess I should answer the question since I bothered posting here. Well for starters, I don't like guys who think of sex first and everything else later. I say this because I once heard about someone who was interested in a girl and in truth, she was a really charming young girl. When he found out she was 16 (he's over 18; yadda, yadda, yadda), he just dropped her like a ball. For crying out loud, there's a time for everything, and that time is not necessarily right now. :/ Second, I guess someone who's either smart or has some sort of love for literature. It can be the hottest guy like it can be the most repulsive-looking, it doesn't matter. If I see them being complete idiots or if they bash literature for illogical reasons ("reading is boring, books suck, etc."), my interest flies South for the Winter and is very unlikely to ever return. Then, I guess there's respect. I respect you, you respect me. We're all humans here, no need for derogatory labels, right? Patience. I am flawed. In many, many, MANY ways. I screw up. A lot. I am a klutz and, on occasion, socially retarded. So if the guy can have the patience to put up with me, that means the world to me. It's probably the most I could possibly ask of a person. Any amount, really. I know it musn't be easy putting up with me. If you can do that for at least a week, you're amazing. Tolerance. There will always be a disagreement or two, right? Even when we compromise, the views will not always be the same. So, tolerance will be required. Company. There is little to nothing that makes you feel lonelier than being on a relationship with someone and then lose contact with that person. It's a really awful place to be at. Affection. A simple hug once a day will do for me, really. I don't need a lust fest every night; just a show of genuine love, be it in a simple way or a complex one. I just want to know if there's some caring in there. I know there will be one or two people who will mention "good looks." While I do like eye candy (very few people don't, really), I don't make that a requirement. I'm not very good-looking myself, so I don't think it'd be fair if I made that a requirement. Besides, I have met a lot of lovable "nerds" and "dorks" who I'd much rather sit and talk with than several jerky "hotrods" I've seen walking around. :/
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Wallace	Sep 28 2011, 06:05 PM Post #38
Break out the L-word. The other L-word. Posts: 1,889 Group: S Rank Hero Member #11,873 Joined: February 24, 2011	Wow. Basically everything Mira said.
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Ark Rotarl	Sep 28 2011, 06:34 PM Post #39
Squeak Posts: 242 Group: C Rank Guardian Member #11,377 Joined: September 4, 2010	Someone who knows how to be serious, when to be serious. Someone who can deal with the hardships of life better than most so they can smile the next day. Someone who takes themselves seriously, yet knows how to laugh at their own failures and mistakes. Someone who can live without the lust and throes of love if it came down to it. Someone who isn't afraid of anything they haven't tried yet. Someone who can find comfort in that which is different and unexpected, yet can enjoy surprise. Someone who won't give up because they feel lost or don't know the words to set things right, that knowing they're there for someone is sometimes enough. Someone who doesn't fear the harshness of reality or honesty in someone's words, no matter how bitter they cut. I don't think I've ever met a person on this earth that meets these traits. But that's okay. I can live with that.



Lady Miracle	Sep 28 2011, 06:36 PM Post #40
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	ZENX49 Sep 28 2011, 06:34 PM Someone who knows how to be serious, when to be serious. Someone who can deal with the hardships of life better than most so they can smile the next day. Someone who takes themselves seriously, yet knows how to laugh at their own failures and mistakes. Someone who can live without the lust and throes of love if it came down to it. Someone who isn't afraid of anything they haven't tried yet. Someone who can find comfort in that which is different and unexpected, yet can enjoy surprise. Someone who won't give up because they feel lost or don't know the words to set things right, that knowing they're there for someone is sometimes enough. Someone who doesn't fear the harshness of reality or honesty in someone's words, no matter how bitter they cut. I don't think I've ever met a person on this earth that meets these traits. But that's okay. I can live with that. You have great taste. Felt the need to say that.
	The Muffin Man's wife and a


Neo Metallix	Sep 28 2011, 06:37 PM Post #41
~Doomsday Overlord~ Posts: 15,568 Group: =SB= Emperor Member #1 Joined: April 8, 2006 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Playstation Network ID: Doc_Of_D Game Currently Playing: Tales of Xillia	khoreii Sep 22 2011, 05:30 PM Level-headed, experienced, controlling men who know their shit, preferably with 5+ years on me. No more 16 year old boy toys, for the love of god. So over that. Cradle robber! ;P
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KogaHarine	Sep 28 2011, 06:37 PM Post #42
The Black Swordsman Posts: 3,253 Group: E Rank Legend Member #7,594 Joined: April 19, 2008 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: Goldth 3DS Friend Code: 047386746636 Nintendo ID: KogaHarine Game Currently Playing: Fantasy Life	@Mira: ...Marry me? Shot Mira that was just beautiful and also very much how I am. I am a very patient person. Mostly cause I know I'm a klutz and I make mistakes. Also: Hug That's for the Affection part of your post. One hug can make any day better. At least for me it can. Heck just talking about it makes me all warm and fuzzy. On the tolerance bit: I know how that is. And a fight here and there is normal. Especially in a relationship. But if you care for the other person then you shouldn't let a fight ruin the relationship.



Lady Miracle	Sep 28 2011, 06:44 PM Post #43
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	Star ☆ Sep 28 2011, 06:37 PM @Mira: ...Marry me? Shot Mira that was just beautiful and also very much how I am. I am a very patient person. Mostly cause I know I'm a klutz and I make mistakes. Also: Hug That's for the Affection part of your post. One hug can make any day better. At least for me it can. Heck just talking about it makes me all warm and fuzzy. On the tolerance bit: I know how that is. And a fight here and there is normal. Especially in a relationship. But if you care for the other person then you shouldn't let a fight ruin the relationship. ~~Chaos-san beat you to it. He agreed to it way back then. In fact, now that I remember, he's been my fiancee ever since lilfate tried to bribe him to marry me for 100 dollas.~~ Sorry; not in the best emotional/mental condition to be dating right now. Besides, I swore off Internet dating (with a few minor exceptions) over a year ago. That hug is very much appreciated, though. Thank you. ^.^ And yeah, that's one of the reasons why I think tolerance is a must.
	The Muffin Man's wife and a


KogaHarine	Sep 28 2011, 06:49 PM Post #44
The Black Swordsman Posts: 3,253 Group: E Rank Legend Member #7,594 Joined: April 19, 2008 Gender: Male Playstation Network ID: Goldth 3DS Friend Code: 047386746636 Nintendo ID: KogaHarine Game Currently Playing: Fantasy Life	See I've never done internet dating before. Mostly cause I don't know if I could handle the fact that I can't see the person that I'm with on a regular basis. I like that closeness with the other person and I don't know if I'd be able to handle that kind of thing. Which is why I'd pretty much not do internet dating unless someone was able to change that for me. It'd take some convincing first.



Lady Miracle	Sep 28 2011, 06:51 PM Post #45
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	Star ☆ Sep 28 2011, 06:49 PM See I've never done internet dating before. Mostly cause I don't know if I could handle the fact that I can't see the person that I'm with on a regular basis. I like that closeness with the other person and I don't know if I'd be able to handle that kind of thing. Which is why I'd pretty much not do internet dating unless someone was able to change that for me. It'd take some convincing first. Knowing them IRL works better. Of course, Jahze once told me that, having been physically close to the person makes it harder to swallow a heartbreak. That could prove deadly to me. ._." I'm a tad too sensitive/emotional about that sort of stuff.
	The Muffin Man's wife and a


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