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| What do you look for...; in a significant other. ^_^ | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Sep 22 2011, 08:52 AM (1,740 Views) | |
| KogaHarine | Sep 22 2011, 08:52 AM Post #1 |
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So yeah we've been having a lot of relationship talk as of late. And it got me to thinking that there are a lot of people on SB that like to talk about relationships, love, and all the other things that are a part of a relationship (Well not all the other things but that's cause that would just be inappropriate). So my question to you all is this: What do you look for in a significant other? You don't have to go into detail. Just give us a basic idea of what you look for.  I personally have a very high interest in relationships (as you all should know by now) and I'm very relationship oriented. Not really going to go into detail just yet about myself. *Tookalotofcouragetogetaroundtomakingthistopic* |
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| Breezy | Sep 23 2011, 11:26 AM Post #16 |
We all make choices. But in the end, our choices make us
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Worry no longer Star for I am here!!  Well what do I look for in a guy? I could go on and on about the things I like and don't like but Ill just get straight to what I love and want from a guy. -He's gotta be able to be sensitive and in touch with his feelings. -Gotta be able to be himself no matter what. I hate guys who try to pretend their something that their not. -FUNNY. That is like number one. I need a wacky, silly, goofy guy who has a great sense of humor. If your too serious or too "cool" to act like a dork with me then GTFO. -Finally, he has to be caring and affectionate. Im quite affectionate myself and need someone who loves to cuddle as much as I do. Im happy to say that I found all these qualities in Doc. <3 So I really don't need to look for that special someone anymore. He is a part of me, like my spleen. Or something like that.
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| Dr. Prower | Sep 23 2011, 11:41 AM Post #17 |
I like being a gentleman sometimes
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Total this. Everything I could ever want from a girl I've gotten with Breezy. She has made me so happy. She's cute, silly, goofy, wild, loving, caring, sexy, always herself, always honest, always just the best. I couldn't imagine how things would be if I had to go on without her. |
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| KogaHarine | Sep 23 2011, 01:24 PM Post #18 |
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Very Nice, Breezy. And I am really glad for you both. @Zeke: To me cuddling is just another way to show affection. |
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| Virgil | Sep 23 2011, 02:52 PM Post #19 |
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I am not really the type that looks for specific traits in a person, but what I would like in a girl is someone who is an artist like me, is caring, smart, humorous, and not going to just throw me to the curb so easily or at all like so many other people have to so many of us here and elsewhere. But I'd also like for the person to tell me when I am doing something stupid myself too. But that's really it, then again. I really haven't had a love life yet, since most of the girls I live with in my neighborhood and school tend to be either complete assholes, or picky as all hell. |
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| Wallace | Sep 23 2011, 03:01 PM Post #20 |
Break out the L-word. The other L-word.
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I've never had a girlfriend, so I don't have any experience in such matters, but I do think that me and a girl who is shy or quiet but smart and funny would get along amazingly. Sadly, I haven't really found anyone like that, yet. Though I'm sure that, knowing me, my first girlfriend will have none of those traits. |P Appearance wise, don't care. That should be a given. If you're as butt ugly as me, you kind of automatically don't care what other people look like, really. Appearance is more of a gravy thing. Well, no, because I don't like gravy. Better analogy... Appearance is like the sprinkles on a banana split. The other parts, like the ice cream, bananas, and chocolate syrup are way better. |P Still not sure about that analogy. Whatever. |
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| KogaHarine | Sep 23 2011, 08:29 PM Post #21 |
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Hmm I guess I will give my list now.  So basically I like a girl who is kind and fun and knows how to laugh. I love a girl who will be spontaneous and can make me laugh. And she also needs to be able to comfort me when I am down. She also needs to be able to talk openly to me about any problems she may have and if I do something she doesn't like then I'd like for her to tell me. She also needs to be able to hang out with the guys and do guy things. That is a must. As for appearance: I'm a bit weird on this one. I like a girl who appreciates her looks but also doesn't go overboard on her looks. |
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| Breezy | Sep 23 2011, 08:59 PM Post #22 |
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I totally know what you mean. You want her to look nice but you don't want her to be all superficial and in front of the mirror all day. Something like that. |
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| KogaHarine | Sep 23 2011, 09:04 PM Post #23 |
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Yes. And as for clothing choice: I really appreciate a girl who is comfortable in what she is wearing but who doesn't go overboard on the amount of clothing. Basically keep it simple. Jeans/shorts, a T-shirt, and sneakers will get you far with me.
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| Lord Pianta | Sep 24 2011, 03:46 AM Post #24 |
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I like a guy who has the same kind of humor as me. That is very important. Plus he should accept the fact that I'm playful and teasing, and he likes to be playful around me as well. I like being sadistic as well - at least my boyfriend told me I am, so yeah, I guess he wouldn't mind when I find it funny when he has pain. He should be comforting me whenever I feel down, always be there for me whenever I need it - even though he's busy, isn't afraid to show his feelings for me and tell me stuff I need in hard times, and make effort for me. Also, he can cook. I don't care if he's good at it or not, but seeing as I'm always hungry...  AND he should be able to text me back ASAP. And I don't really care about looks. As long he feels comfortable in it and I think it looks good, it's okay. Although I like me some eyecandy...but oh well, haha. Yeah, I thought I wasn't picky.. oh well! Luckily enough I have already found that guy. |
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| DarkOverord | Sep 26 2011, 10:00 AM Post #25 |
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My other half *thwacked* To be fair, he kinda is pretty perfect for me! :V All I need is someone who isn't a jerk, likes a laugh, shares some of my interests, and is generally all round a nice guy C: Course he needs to generally be clean, last thing you need is to get together with someone who smells of the sewers afterall! Course looks are a thing, but to be fair, it's not a major thing :V I do not like to sounds mean, but in the end, you can say you love personality, but to a degree there's still going to be what you like and don't like about a person's looks, me other half kinda fits in with what I like in a man. But that's just me. A few minor things I also look for really is honestly how well they'll react in general, how clingy they are, would he give me enough space? They're all important. All's fair in Love and War and all that. |
         
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| KogaHarine | Sep 26 2011, 10:17 AM Post #26 |
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Personally I think I'm a clingy guy. At least I've been told that but to me I like being with the person I am dating as much as I can. And I like talking to that person as much as I can just to hear their voice at least once during the day will be enough to make me happy.
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| Phoenix-Saturn | Sep 26 2011, 10:23 AM Post #27 |
i just wwant to be beautiful for this one month
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How could I have just seen this topic? Okay... The semi-informal list... I like a guy who can make me laugh. Spontaneity is a good thing. He also needs to be able to take playful abuse, because I dish a lot of it. He has to be able to deal with the fact that I'm completely random at times. Like Breezy said, if he can't be a nerd with me, then GTFO. Cuddling is also a must. I would never be able to date someone who wouldn't cuddle me. We need to have things in common, and be able to carry out meaningful conversations. Fluff is good, but it's not all the world revolves around. He also needs to be tolerant of the fact that I have a religion and I believe in it. Him liking the same music as me is a big bonus. I didn't used to care about looks, and they're still not a huge priority. But there are some things I've noticed I like more than others. He has to have hair, for one, and I don't mean buzz cut or anything like that. That said, his hair can't be longer or comparible in legnth to mine. Another thing on looks, and I don't know if this is standard fact or just a coincidence, but I've never been attracted to black guys. Never. It just doesn't... I dunno. It sounds racist to say, but it's true. |
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| Breezy | Sep 26 2011, 10:41 AM Post #28 |
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Oh totally get what you mean and I must agree. Its nothing racist but you like what you like and you don't what you don't. Its as simple as that. |
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| KogaHarine | Sep 26 2011, 10:43 AM Post #29 |
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That's a very good list P_S. |
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| DarkOverord | Sep 26 2011, 11:59 AM Post #30 |
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So long as you remember to give now and then. It's one thing to be clingy, another to smother your other half. People in general will need some alone time. Not if they're down, but sometimes it's easier to unwind in your own way than with someone else. This is an important thing in the end. Just remember that. It's a big 'un. |
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