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| Tweet Topic Started: Jul 27 2010, 03:01 AM (398 Views) | |
| Breakfast Princess | Jul 27 2010, 03:01 AM Post #1 |
The most important meal of the day
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Anyone know the cure for a broken heart? This is not the first time i've gotten my heart broken, but it certainly is bad. And I never get over stuff like this by my self... Anyone got anything? |
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| Lord Tora Unlimited Crusader | Jul 27 2010, 03:16 AM Post #2 |
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Number one piece of advice you will EVER GET: If something pulls your emotions down, IT'S NOT WORTH IT. It's an infallible mental survival technique; whenever something causes your emotional state to fall into a danger zone, it's something that you shouldn't have anything to do with in the first place. By disassociating yourself with things that evoke negative emotional reactions, you're saving yourself the stress of having to cope with it in the first place. In short, limit exposure to the offending person/event, and if you find yourself thinking about it, STOP THINKING AbOUT IT and do something you actually enjoy. And if you can't stop thinking about it, you're not trying to stop hard enough! >:3 |
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| Breakfast Princess | Jul 27 2010, 03:25 AM Post #3 |
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But what if that person happens to be the person i love and stuff? And what if they still care for me and i still have feelings for them? and what if i can't avoid seeing that person, what if its simply impossible to avoid them. Then I'll have to think of them. And that'll suck. But what you said actually makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the attempt/advice. it was cool. |
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| Lord Tora Unlimited Crusader | Jul 27 2010, 03:52 AM Post #4 |
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If they still care for you and you still care for them, why is there heartbreaking involved? |
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| Breakfast Princess | Jul 27 2010, 04:09 AM Post #5 |
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Because we were together. Now we're not. Hence, heartbreaking. It hurts so much. What sucks is that its making it so that i can't sleep. and im tired, exhauseted, and dry. But i can't sleep. Boo... |
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| Lord Tora Unlimited Crusader | Jul 27 2010, 04:21 AM Post #6 |
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But you're still friends, right? Call me cold, but that doesn't seem much of a difference, ne? What is 'togetherness' when you really break it down into its constituent parts? A close friend is a close friend; there's nothing too much about that to get upset about. Rejoice that you still have an excellent friend!  Chin up, m'gal, this is what they call 'secondbest possible outcome'! Sure, it's not the best, but it's a much better alternative to what could have happened. 
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| Breakfast Princess | Jul 27 2010, 04:27 AM Post #7 |
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Hm. You're right. But there is a huge difference. You can't kiss the "secondbest possible outcome". you can't share the same stuff. There isn't the same bond of hearts. there isn't the same bond at all. it isn't the same. and it hurts when you think about what once was and what could have been. That's the difference. And many more. I don't wanna be just his friend. Then I'll see him with a different girl and then how am i supposed to feel? Just whatever? NO! Cuz i still love him. And i always will, i guess. even if i end up getting over it... |
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Jul 27 2010, 05:17 PM Post #8 |
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Not to sound extremely cold, but do what I did: suck it up, accept the facts, and move on. Sometimes that's all it takes. Do things you enjoy that don't remind you of them. Find distractions. Eventually the thought of them will become different in your mind, and it'll stop hurting. You'll still care for them and all, but the intimate ideas will leave your mind and your mentality will label them as a friend again. |
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| terminallyCapricious | Aug 27 2010, 09:25 PM Post #9 |
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You could make me a sandwich. That works if your heartbreak is because Shrikeswind does not have a sandwich. =P No, seriously, though. The exact answer is: Give it time. Seriously. And while you're waiting for it to just go poof, have a good time. Go shopping. Pursue immortality. Go hang-gliding. Write a fictional autobiography (for example, I am supposedly Gilgamesh, Hanuman, and Momotaro, all because I say so.) And if nothing else, you'll at least be able to say "Hey, I discovered how to create cold fusion. What's he done?" Once you start living in the moment, everything starts looking up, because whatever you're doing, it's all you. |
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| The Milkman | Aug 27 2010, 11:55 PM Post #10 |
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Broken Heart? Weld it back together. Protip: Life moves on. Don't dwell in the past or it'll drag you down in all it's filth. Then again, if you want to be self destructive, then I don't much see the point of this topic. |
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| Katsuko | Sep 8 2010, 02:22 PM Post #11 |
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Take your feelings and use them to do something creative. I suggest poetry. Feelings are resources and you might as well capitalize on them. |
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| Silv™ | Sep 11 2010, 10:57 PM Post #12 |
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I admit, I'm suffering from being Heart broken as well. My GF Left me because she said i didn't fit here, and that we weren't meant for each-other, and then she started going out with my best friend. I felt like my world was my enemy, and i felt very alone for a very long time up until now. What do i do? I still like her as a friend, she was wonderful. but i just dont know right now. Edited by Silv™, Sep 11 2010, 11:00 PM.
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| Strawhat Luffy~NH~ | Sep 12 2010, 01:17 AM Post #13 |
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Ahh being heartbroken is one of the worse feelings you'll ever experience. Just try to keep your head and do things that would help you not to think about your heart being broken. Maybe the dude who broke your heart wasn't the right one for you, but as they say there are many fish in the sea. I promise you that you'll find that right guy who will treat you amazing and never hurt you. Just stay strong things will get better I promise you. |
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| Love4shadow | Sep 12 2010, 06:17 AM Post #14 |
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Ok. girl-to-girl. I've suffured alot of heartbreak too. There was one guy I dated, we dated for two years. I really thought like y'know, this was gonna work. I was on MSN with him one night, he always stays on all night when I have insomnia attacks. And he told me just like this " I'm dumbing you for Amanda. Bye " Then he went offline. I got it confirmed the next day. I had a few tears then my friends helped me get over it by having a huge weekend girl slumber party. 2 monthes later I found someone else and we're still together. So the moral of this is pretty much what all the guys above me have been sayin', Just let it slide and find someone else. It's not worth spilling millions of tears over one person, lifes too short, make the best of it while you still can. |
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