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Topic Started: Feb 7 2010, 01:53 PM (342 Views)
Phoenix-Saturn
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i just wwant to be beautiful for this one month
Yeah. So here goes:

I've been in a relationship with a guy for about a month now, but so far the only way we could be classified as more than friends is by the occasional hand hold.

I'm slightly worried. Does it mean he doesn't really want a serious relationship? Does he just want to be friends? Or do you guys think he's just afraid of moving foward?

I really need advice on this.
i'm actually really sorry bout this
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Lady Miracle
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If you're his first girlfriend, it's possible he's just nervous or something like that. I've heard of guys whod wouldn't kiss or hug the girl they're dating ebcause they don't know if it's too straightforward or because they're still pretty shy. Have you tried asking him?
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Phoenix-Saturn
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i just wwant to be beautiful for this one month
To be honest, I didn't want to say anything about it because I was afraid of offending him.
i'm actually really sorry bout this
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"I didn't use the whole thing ...."
If he was me, and you were my first girlfriend, then I know I would be way too nervous to try anything like that, You should talk to him in private about it first and see what his viewpoint is, just don't try to rush him if he's having a hard time with showing his emotions.
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wowzaa1
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You are never quite the person you think you are
I think he's just really epic shy, which is cute for awhile but its pretty stupid after awhile. Just kiss him first.
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Thats how I was with my gf for the first month we were together. I was real shy and afraid I was rushing things. He's probally just shy. Kiss him or something. Thats what Angie did to get me over being shy.
Buachaill ón Eirne mé's bhréagfainn féin cailín deas óg
Né iarfainn bó spré léithe tá mé saibhir go leor 'S liom
Corcaigh a mhéid e , dhá thaobh a ghleanna's Tír Eoghain
'S mur n-athraí mé béasaí 's mé n' t-oibhr ar Chontae
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Translation of the Irish: I am a boy from Ireland and I'd coax a nice young girl,
I wouldn't ask for a dowry with her, I'm rich enough myself,
I own Cork, big as it is both sides of the glen and Tyrone,
And if I don't change my ways I'll be the heir for County Mayo.


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Phoenix-Saturn
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Okay, thanks so much you guys. I was really worried for a while...
i'm actually really sorry bout this
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Maybe he's just not a very physical lover?

I'd talk to him about it, straight-forward and open. You both need to understand what's the maximum you're comfortable with and what's the minimum you want.

And I would -not- "just kiss him" without asking <<
Edited by Katsuko, Feb 18 2010, 10:50 PM.
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Take him to a remote location, kiss him, then see what unfolds. : P

And yes I'm being serious.
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