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I still like my ex, does he like me still, too?; ...
Topic Started: Apr 18 2009, 01:25 AM (317 Views)
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Okay, I like my ex, Zack. But I broke up with him(idk why). So he is dating my friend EMILY. And on Myspace his status/mood is always something like:

is crazy bout emily
ily emily

And when I message him, he ALWAYS talks about her like she is the queen of the world. But Zack is stil nice to me, except on my b-day...he avoided me the whole time!! And he still makes me laugh and stuff. But idk if he still likes me...I like him...


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You broke up with him and you don't know why? That's weird. It's pretty logic that he moves on with his life. He probably just wanna be friends, I guess.
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Yeah. Idk why I broke up with him. AT FIRST I was using him to go to a party. But now I really like him.

I like a bunch of other guys, but they dont like me...
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Well you broke up with him. It's often a reason why he can move on. Sadly you didn't see that you still liked him till it was to late. I don't know what you can do about it. I mean it sounded like a soap opera if you would attempt snatching him back. But I don't see you fighting for your ex-boy friend.

School isn't the last destination however. If you have no luck with other boys around school. That doesn't mean it will be the last one. I'd say continue with your life, perhaps when you've had someone, it may be more difficult to live without one. Still, I don't see what else options there is.

Sorry, I can't help much. I have never had such a bond.
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There's a difference between 'liking' someone and 'loving' them. I will wager my Ebony Longsword that you can't be older than about 16, let alone 18.

Don't rush into things so quickly; wait until you have the maturity to make the right decisions for the right reasons. At the moment, however, from what you've said it seems that you don't really have the capacity to decipher your emotions correctly yet.

Same goes to the rest of today's generation; between the ages of 12-20, life is complex enough as it is without getting into relationships. That sort of nonsense can wait 'til you've got a education and a solid foundation for living out the rest of your life. Otherwise, in the end, you'll just end up not knowing whether you're Arthur or Martha. Er... figuratively speaking of course.
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Your ex has moved on. You might feel a bit strange about him talking about your friend all the time; but just be happy for him. He's in love and you can't change that. I don't what type of like you mean, as in 'like' or 'love like'. But you already have a boyfriend yourself so there isn't any point in getting jealous. ;)

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You don't know why you broke up with him? I'm not afraid of getting Emmy's feelings hurt so here from experience I'll tell ya how the boy feels.

His questions that remain unanswered and he will never ask: Why'd she broke up with me? All cuz of someone that she felt bad about? Was she using or cheating on me?

His thoughts: I love my new girlfriend, I still like my ex though. I wonded how she feels. Meh, no use trying. I'd rather be her friend now. I mean if she asks me out, I don't want my feelings hurt again. I may go back out with her when neither of us are in a relationship. If we do go back out, I will break her heart, or hope to be together forever with her.


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I'd say that he just wants to be friends, you broke up with him and he moved on.

May i ask how long ago you broke up with him cause if it was only recent its kind of bad that he is with someone else now but if its a good while its ok.

The fact that he talks about her all the time mite mean he is still sour about the break up and trying to annoy you but dont take my word for it im often wrong on these sort of things.
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Like TUC said, there's a huge difference between 'liking' and 'loving'. I've seen your behavior and all those guys you've been with have been nothing more than mere crushes and liking, but not actual love.

If it were love, you wouldn't be with one for a few days, break up with him because he cheated on you, get together with him for one more week, pop up the next day with another BF and then the next day talking about liking an entirely new guy. Those are 3 in less than 2 weeks; that, is the common emotion confusion teenagers tend to get.

I mean no offense, but I had never before met a 13-year-old like you... Getting so many crushes and boyfriends in such little time. Like TUC said, if you're looking for an actual relationship, wait until you complete your education, have your emotions sorted out and/or (the 'or' for 'at least') have enough capacity to think things through, what will happen and what you really want and need.

If this is just another crush like I suspect, you have to learn that you used him and then dumped him and he's moved on now. He just wants to be friends and you have to respect that and learn to accept it, then move on. Like DF said, there are more boys than just those at school. But focus on what really is important and let things happen at their own time. That's the most I can say.
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never relised your 13, dont worry about this sort of stuff now your too young.., go out and enjoy yourself. Sure im 18 and im still not ready for a relationship, because like im still in education, to me thats more important inmy life
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Apr 18 2009, 01:25 AM
Okay, I like my ex, Zack. But I broke up with him(idk why). So he is dating my friend EMILY.

Total douchebag.

Does he still like you? Probably not.
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