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Too shy,
Topic Started: Apr 16 2009, 05:28 AM (233 Views)
Shauna
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Okay, again, I have no idea why I'm coming here with a problem like this but hey, it beats nothing.

So, the deal is, there's this guy I really like. Although he's god damn gorgeous and is pretty much a sociol butterfly, everyone knows and likes him. Including girls. Me on the other hand, i have so little self-confidence that it may as well not be there. I'm sure as hell not the prettiest around and I can be shy as hell if I don't know someone well enough. Sure, I have plenty of friends and sure, I've talked to this guy a couple of times and he's unbelievably nice and laid back easy to talk to. But to be honest i'd be surprised if he even remembers who I am outside his workplace, and I'm usually in company anyway.

So basically, i really like the guy, but he's not exactly a friend as of yet, and considering my confidence is crap, I don't know how to go about things. Not that anything would come out of it (see? lol). Most people would say go talk to him or something along those lines, but this guy is like I said, a social butterfly.
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Right now there was a method which I don't remember the name but basically says to train on the mirror.
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Kammy
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You won't get much closer, 'till you sacrifice it all.
I suffer from shyness from time to time, and believe or not, same goes for pratically all the members here.

It's especially hard when you REALLY feel the need to talk to this guy, but you just don't have the guts to do it. Like Epharim said, practise. (Although the mirror thing is slightly OTT.. XD ) Keep trying until you feel brave enough to chat casually with him.
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Shauna
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I was gonna go talk to him this weekend.
But he's out town. Dammit! Ha.
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Kammy
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You won't get much closer, 'till you sacrifice it all.
Ah! Bad luck. Also, I forgot to add, don't act to eager. That easily scares anybody away. =P
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Shauna
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Lol. Yeah, I probably wont anyway, I'm shy when it comes to guys. But I', starting to doubt whether he even works there anymore. I haven't been in a while, and a friend told me they were looking for more work. =/ Ugh. If he doesn't I'm pretty much screwed.
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Well if that is the case. Do you have his name, ask em if they know anything about him. If you really like him that it would be worth seeking him out, if that is he have quit work.

Never really had the bravery to step forwards my self. And if there will be, it's just talk. Nothing like I would have emotions for who I am speaking with. Still heck, it's difficult these times, we ain't like old times. We like to live a free life somewhat.

I don't know, can't really give you any advice here. But I would spend some time looking for him, if he means something for you.
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