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Epicly Failing Love Life.
Topic Started: May 1 2008, 01:28 PM (1,102 Views)
Brick Mage
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I'll be there every step of the way...
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Valkus
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Your in the position my friend went through a year ago.
Even if you were her friend and talked to her, doesn't mean she'd say yes.
Also, this really is pathetic alot of other girls out there yo.
You act like you love her YOU DONT you may think you do, but no.
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Brick Mage
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all systems go

Girls are dumb, anyway. Why the hell does she hate you and anyone associated with you? That's just stupid. It's not your fault they were being stupid jerks to her.

Okay, well I get why she would hate anyone associated with you, especially if they were bothering her, but hating you is rather silly.

Whatever, if she's gonna be stupid like that, then she's not worth it.
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Stop obsessing. It's making her embarrassed and miserable, and it's making you embarrassed and miserable. She doesn't hate you, she just isn't very mature in the way she handles men, nor will she be likely to grow up any time soon. Just move on.

Dating is overrated. If you DID get a date with her, I think it would ultimately disappoint you. In the long run, you're going to be alot happier if you learn to

A. Be satisfied with yourself for good, sound reasons (or religious reasons, depending on your beliefs) not what other people think. Men who are confidant in themselves even when the world's against them are very attractive.

B. Learn how to control and ignore feelings. Right now, your feelings are the master of you, whether it's the fear that keeps you from talking to her, or the attraction that brings you back for more. You're better than this, and you're stronger than this. Just chose to act against your emotions when they're wrong.

C. value friendship over romance. In the long run, it lasts alot longer, and is usually alot healthier. Learn how to be a GOOD, selfless friend who's open and vulnerable, and honestly interested in other people. In doing this, you'll become less egotistical, and alot more fun to be around. Not only will this make you more, and better friends, but it will make you alot more attractive to women when you're mature enough to handle it.

D. Recognize that neither you or her are mature enough for romance. You can't muster the courage to talk to her, and she's so embarrassed by the attention she gets from you, that she's turned into a real jerkette. Both of these are the typical reaction of teenagers, and are sure signs that you haven't grown up enough to approach romance in a way that will work out well for you and your partner. Give it a year or two.

E. Get back out there! This is a mere bump in the road in the long run, and it will only hurt you if you let it! Get over your emotions, and get back to your real friends as your real, happy self.
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Great advice, Yvette. Sadly, I was like Maelic too. Obsessive and always depressed when things didn't go my way... Thank god I was snapped out of that kind of thinking.

Now I screen them, I have set standards for myself, before I consider them instead of letting infatuation blind me from everything.
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To be serious with you I agree with Yvette, dating is over rated, ( Poor glandy)
I mean I want to a movie with my Girlfriend, She wanted to snuggle and kiss which isn't so bad even though when I pay for a movie I intend to watch it. ( But hey, I can muiltask)

The bad thing was that her father had came with us, and he moved closure when she snuggled, I was freaked.

I would guess that dating gets better as you get older, however right now, I would be more worried about my grades ( If I want to school) My health fitness and whatever else I want to be doing in the future than trying to hook up with someone ( Hooking up used in the lightest term here)

Seriously Girls can come later when you can commit better.

I give sucky advice, I don't have a whole lot exprience.

oh and POKOMON ROFL!!!
Annoy me and i'll bite your head off.
* Warning. Hardcore critic posting*


Friends: None. ( The mighty Jacob needs no friends)
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Eprahim
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If that happened, then, my boy, you're so **Bleep**ed.

Try leaving things calm down a bit. Forget her for a month or two. Or even more. Let things reset.
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I have very simple advice, forget her. I don't think dating is needed at this stage in life... KEEP YOUR MONEY!!! XD No seriously, don't spend money on girls this early in life, it will end in EPIC FAILURE!! I'm sorry man, but you live and learn, and sometimes... the lesson's a harsh one...
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Eh. If you REALLY like her, things will fall into place. You can start out like this I guess though, WITHOUT ANYBODY AROUND. AT ALL. EVER.

You: Well, Tiffany, I know you don't want to talk to me right now but I am sorry for the trouble I caused.

And walk away.
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Oh. You're over her? I guess you'll find someone else!
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Well i can only say that, if you couldn't even talk to her, Imagine how akward an entire date would've been.
But good to hear your over it.

I'm hopeless myself. I've had two big possibility chances, and failed miserably to ask either out.
Despite a sort of mutual liking, I'm just to shy deep dowm

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Skippy
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Dude your not in love trust me. I thought i was. I was in the same situation. Just leave her alone. He's probably a psyco B*tch inside. The girl I liked was just like that. Seemed perfect for me, now she probably wants me dead. And I could care less. So my advice forget her and move on.
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I think everone pretty much said the same thing.

Value your friends more, and just forget her, act like it never happened.

It goes alot easier that way, like when I thought I was in love for 2 days. lol
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Let it suck you in. You know you want it to.
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