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Epicly Failing Love Life.; Continuation to "Girl Trouble..."
Topic Started: May 1 2008, 01:28 PM (566 Views)
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And, in quote, here is the "Girl Trouble..." topic by me:
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Eh Heh... Yeah.

Well, I guess I should tell you all the story. There's this girl I like... :wub: She's cute, and sweet, and... Heh heh... Mkay, so, at school, I told one of my friends. Word leaks out, and everyone knows now, even her. My friends asked her out, and she said maybe... But then, one day, another friend of mine shouted across the hall at the end of school, "Hey, Hunter (My Name), has something to say to you!" There was kind of an awkward silence, but I finally managed to ask, "Will you go out with me?" She just replied, "I told you I don't know yet..." and then I went on.

Well, my friends start bugging the crap out of her, two in particular, with their crazy PERVERTED jokes. They're WAAAAY too inappropriate to post... O_o They were so sick... Luckily, they didn't say the perverted ones to her. They just went up and said stuff like, "Hunter loves you!" or "You know Hunter likes you, right?"

Anyway, I finally told her that I got them to stop. But she didn't say anything... She seemed kinda ticked off, I think. Later, some other friends asked if she would go out with me, to try to figure it out, since she had said maybe, like, a whole week or two ago. This time, I quote, she said, "Well, he never talks to me, so I guess no..."

Then, in the past few days, two of my other friends did something. One just made a comment to her that I liked her, and the other CLAIMS he asked her out for me. I don't know that second one for certain. She seemed a little friendlier towards me, today, I think...

One thing, all along, every one says I need to talk to her more. I just don't know what to say to start a conversation or anything...

What do I do? I really like her... :wub: How can I get her to go out with me?


And here are the recent events.

After a while, Things quited down. I was unsuccessful in talking to her during 2nd Period, failed to find any other times to get a single word in to her, my friends cracked pervy jokes, and threatened to tell her... But again, never did. It continued like that for a few weeks.

And just recently, the quote, "He never talks to me, so I guess no..."? IT JUST. FREAKING. DIED.

Well, just a few days ago, me and one friend, were at P.E. The girl I like was over at the other edge of the playground. I asked my friend to help me talk to her. We walk up, some people are around, and finally after a few moments, my friend says, "Hunter wants to talk to you!"

She kept saying, "Leave me alone!" until we finally went away. ;_; Now she won't talk to me...

Well, she is pissed off at me and my friends, obviously, and I feel horrible, for two reasons:

1. She doesn't like me, and it looks like I don't have much of a chance. My friend told me I should probably find a new girl... And that he thinks there's no way I can go out with her.
2. I think I have destroyed her entire reputation and social life. ;_; She's not really that popular. She's in band, but... She has some good friends, no one ever bothers her... She really had it good. Then I come along, start liking her, and all the "Sub-preps" freak the crap out, "ZOMG HUNTER LIEKS TIFFANIE ZOMG WE GOTZ TO BOTHER THE LIVING CRAPS OUT OF TEM!!!" Well, they did just that. Now, she hates me, and anyone that has any type or sort of relation to me in any way.

I don't know what to do. I never even get a chance to be nice to her, or much, at least...

I want to go out with her. I really, REALLY, REALLY like her. She's pretty, and sweet, and she just seems all-around perfect for me. But she hates me... At the VERY least, I wanna apologize for all this. But she won't accept my Bebo friend request, I'm too much of a coward to talk to her at school... I think she even made a new account to get away from me. ;_;

I just want one more chance, I wouldn't be a coward, and I would talk to her. ;_;

Ya know, this crap only adds on to my sucky social life. MY SUPER FREAKING SUCKY SOCIAL LIFE. It's miserable. ;_;

And speaking of that, I wouldn't doubt she thinks I'm some traing card nerd, like most of the preps do. Why do I look so nerdy? I'm not!! Once, I had a prep walk up to me and ask, "GOT ANY POKE'MON CARDS?"

And I was like, "WTF!? POKE'MON SUCKS!!"

... See? She probably thinks the exact same.

Is there any way, in this entire world, that I can get a date with her? Honestly, I am about to give up on it... It's hardly worth the crap if she doesn't even like me, and probably never will. >__> I wanna give it one last shot, though. Any help or suggestions? Or is it really time I gave up?
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Your in the position my friend went through a year ago.
Even if you were her friend and talked to her, doesn't mean she'd say yes.
Also, this really is pathetic alot of other girls out there yo.
You act like you love her YOU DONT you may think you do, but no.
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>__> Other girls atmy school? They're all really ugly or preps. And I very much dislike the preps. They're so... Preppy.

I'd have to move before I found somebody else.

And okay then, I don't love her. But I like her, a lot. And I've already given up so many times before... It just sucks.
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Girls are dumb, anyway. Why the hell does she hate you and anyone associated with you? That's just stupid. It's not your fault they were being stupid jerks to her.

Okay, well I get why she would hate anyone associated with you, especially if they were bothering her, but hating you is rather silly.

Whatever, if she's gonna be stupid like that, then she's not worth it.
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Stop obsessing. It's making her embarrassed and miserable, and it's making you embarrassed and miserable. She doesn't hate you, she just isn't very mature in the way she handles men, nor will she be likely to grow up any time soon. Just move on.

Dating is overrated. If you DID get a date with her, I think it would ultimately disappoint you. In the long run, you're going to be alot happier if you learn to

A. Be satisfied with yourself for good, sound reasons (or religious reasons, depending on your beliefs) not what other people think. Men who are confidant in themselves even when the world's against them are very attractive.

B. Learn how to control and ignore feelings. Right now, your feelings are the master of you, whether it's the fear that keeps you from talking to her, or the attraction that brings you back for more. You're better than this, and you're stronger than this. Just chose to act against your emotions when they're wrong.

C. value friendship over romance. In the long run, it lasts alot longer, and is usually alot healthier. Learn how to be a GOOD, selfless friend who's open and vulnerable, and honestly interested in other people. In doing this, you'll become less egotistical, and alot more fun to be around. Not only will this make you more, and better friends, but it will make you alot more attractive to women when you're mature enough to handle it.

D. Recognize that neither you or her are mature enough for romance. You can't muster the courage to talk to her, and she's so embarrassed by the attention she gets from you, that she's turned into a real jerkette. Both of these are the typical reaction of teenagers, and are sure signs that you haven't grown up enough to approach romance in a way that will work out well for you and your partner. Give it a year or two.

E. Get back out there! This is a mere bump in the road in the long run, and it will only hurt you if you let it! Get over your emotions, and get back to your real friends as your real, happy self.
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Great advice, Yvette. Sadly, I was like Maelic too. Obsessive and always depressed when things didn't go my way... Thank god I was snapped out of that kind of thinking.

Now I screen them, I have set standards for myself, before I consider them instead of letting infatuation blind me from everything.
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To be serious with you I agree with Yvette, dating is over rated, ( Poor glandy)
I mean I want to a movie with my Girlfriend, She wanted to snuggle and kiss which isn't so bad even though when I pay for a movie I intend to watch it. ( But hey, I can muiltask)

The bad thing was that her father had came with us, and he moved closure when she snuggled, I was freaked.

I would guess that dating gets better as you get older, however right now, I would be more worried about my grades ( If I want to school) My health fitness and whatever else I want to be doing in the future than trying to hook up with someone ( Hooking up used in the lightest term here)

Seriously Girls can come later when you can commit better.

I give sucky advice, I don't have a whole lot exprience.

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Annoy me and i'll bite your head off.
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... I'm done with her, now, I guess.

And @ JBH: Well, actually... It is my fault. I call my friend this nickname, he talks to the girl, or cracks a pervy joke. Whichever he prefers. :( And I get mad at him. A LOT.

But I don't really like her anymore, I don't guess.
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If that happened, then, my boy, you're so **Bleep**ed.

Try leaving things calm down a bit. Forget her for a month or two. Or even more. Let things reset.
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I have very simple advice, forget her. I don't think dating is needed at this stage in life... KEEP YOUR MONEY!!! XD No seriously, don't spend money on girls this early in life, it will end in EPIC FAILURE!! I'm sorry man, but you live and learn, and sometimes... the lesson's a harsh one...
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I'm over her... I actually feel relieved, not under all that pressure of what I'm gonna say to her, trying to work up the courage to talk, trying not to embarass myself.
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Eh. If you REALLY like her, things will fall into place. You can start out like this I guess though, WITHOUT ANYBODY AROUND. AT ALL. EVER.

You: Well, Tiffany, I know you don't want to talk to me right now but I am sorry for the trouble I caused.

And walk away.
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Oh. You're over her? I guess you'll find someone else!
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Well i can only say that, if you couldn't even talk to her, Imagine how akward an entire date would've been.
But good to hear your over it.

I'm hopeless myself. I've had two big possibility chances, and failed miserably to ask either out.
Despite a sort of mutual liking, I'm just to shy deep dowm

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Dude your not in love trust me. I thought i was. I was in the same situation. Just leave her alone. He's probably a psyco B*tch inside. The girl I liked was just like that. Seemed perfect for me, now she probably wants me dead. And I could care less. So my advice forget her and move on.
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I think everone pretty much said the same thing.

Value your friends more, and just forget her, act like it never happened.

It goes alot easier that way, like when I thought I was in love for 2 days. lol
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I have very simple advice, forget her. I don't think dating is needed at this stage in life... KEEP YOUR MONEY!!! XD No seriously, don't spend money on girls this early in life, it will end in EPIC FAILURE!! I'm sorry man, but you live and learn, and sometimes... the lesson's a harsh one...

I don't believe that at all. I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months, and I'm pretty god damm happy with her. Dating, is important, but unimportant at the same time. It all depends on what you want. Sure you can focus on your grades, and only your grades, but then your social life goes Splat. I know from Experience. Just keep it in balance.

Maelic asked me for advice on this through pm, hah. But, he doesn't like her anymore? So I suppose this topic should be locked?


And Skippy, That's a terrible saying XD Bros before hoes. I hate that saying, because I have a lot of female friends.
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Try to not say ho though. Its kind of derogetory towards women.
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Exactly what Haro said. It's not calling the person a Ho. It's really saying: Buds before girlfriends.
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No, I think bro's before hoes is more like saying, if you have a girlfriend don't just shove aside your friends completely.
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