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Oh what to do.; Is it me? or him?
Tweet Topic Started: Oct 27 2008, 03:12 PM (524 Views)
Summer	Oct 27 2008, 03:12 PM Post #1
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 132 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #9,457 Joined: October 25, 2008	Hi yall! I normlly don't share my info with others but most of you are many many miles away and could get me some good advise. thats what I'm shoot'in for anyways. So heres the scoop. There is this boy I like in my school. oh gosh he is so cute. I think he likes me to. at least thats what all my friends tell me. Now heres the problem. I think he thinks I'm a beauty and wonder gal. but I think he doesn't take a shine to me because I over power him almost all the time. I may look small and appear to be like a cute little bunny. but this bunny has some real hop to her if you know what I mean. he gets mad at me when I win fights. I also can't help some times in acting like a guy and being more manly then he would be. I don't want my actions to drive us a part but I like him to much. I don't know what to do now. Maybe it is me. or maybe its just him. can anyone help out a poor gal indisstress?
	"Do you know the first rule of flying?... Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." I got Mew the first time but I missed a question so I redid it


Shauna	Oct 27 2008, 04:55 PM Post #2
I'MA FIRIN' MA LAZER! Posts: 264 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #9,173 Joined: July 10, 2008	If he likes you, then he should like you enough to look pass what you see as flaws and be willing to make it work. Just be yourself and hope that it's enough. No person should have to change to please another. But you should really go talk to him about it. Guys like it when girls are confident in that area, and he'll respect you for it. Also, if you talk it out hopefully you two can come to an understanding and work something out.
	"Some people call our realm a world of shadows, but that makes it sound unpleasent"


cap	Oct 28 2008, 06:14 AM Post #3
Wired to the moon Posts: 2,049 Group: C Rank Adventurer Member #5,164 Joined: January 17, 2008	Can't really say much, apart from just don't have a crowd around if you do confront him an anyway. I've seen people do so, and its the most awkward thing for a guy, being surrounded by a thousand girls who want some kind of direct answer. Usually leaves the guy to just be either, paranoid, or really pissed off.
	I just want to save you while there's still something left to save


Summer	Oct 28 2008, 12:35 PM Post #4
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 132 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #9,457 Joined: October 25, 2008	I wish what yall just told me was as easy as just saying it. As I've been saying I Think he likes me. Everytime we meet we both can't stop smiling at each other. I don't know how to start off the convo or how I should ask hi. I don't want him thinking I'm mad at him or make him feel like I'm putting him in the mud if you know what I mean. I don't know if this helps but he kissed me on the check today when we played wrestled in the hallway. I let him pin me up against the wall and he kissed me on the cheek and ran. I don't know what to do. And I don't just want this to be one of those things were he just is take'in a shine to me but not relationship wise. Oh why are boys so complicated.
	"Do you know the first rule of flying?... Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." I got Mew the first time but I missed a question so I redid it


Gale	Oct 28 2008, 03:36 PM Post #5
<3 Posts: 1,779 Group: S Rank Hero Member #3,090 Joined: October 23, 2007 Gender: Female	For goodness' sakes, ask him out. He's been flirting so much that it's his own fault if he doesn't like it. This isn't a boy problem. You don't need advice. It seems pretty straightforward to me. You know what to do, you're just being shy about it, so get it over with, make sure he likes you first hand, and start a relationship.



Summer	Oct 28 2008, 04:00 PM Post #6
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 132 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #9,457 Joined: October 25, 2008	Gasp! my those are some powerful words! my friend told me the same thing. but I like the way you said it. But yall seem to be missing the key factor right here. I THINK he likes me. I'm not the only pretty gal he likes. well at thats what I'm seeing anyways. I do like him and I do want'ta ask him out. but I don't want to be shot down because that will change everything we have now. I want him to like me and not the other gals that are around. and I don't want to ask him out just so he can get me as another score on his board if you know what I mean.
	"Do you know the first rule of flying?... Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." I got Mew the first time but I missed a question so I redid it


Lady Miracle	Oct 28 2008, 04:53 PM Post #7
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	Well,... I know how to work with a guy who has a crush on me... But when I tried working with my first crush, I was so inexperienced, I never even got close to trying to score. Anyway, I understand if you're shy. I'm shy too. But he kissed you and ran away and it actually seems he does like you. Don't make the smae mistake I did. Remember what I told you in my PM? Yeah, if you know that there is a HUGE chance he likes you, talk to him. Asking him out when you are shy might backfire. I'm not telling you not to do it, but I think it'd be best to talk privately before asking out. Just say something like "Hey, I have a doubt. Don't take this the wrong way please. It's just a simple question of curiosity andd your honest answer, which is what I need, won't change any friendship between us. I've seen indirective messages from you. Do you... like-like me? As in, like me?" Yeah, that's all I can say. PM me for more advice, gal. I might not be an expert, but I have friends that do, and I'm pretty good with advice... or so it seems at school...
	The Muffin Man's wife and a


Lord Master of Darkness�	Oct 28 2008, 07:43 PM Post #8
Posts: 6,570 Group: Former Monarchs Member #6,063 Joined: February 19, 2008 Xbox Live Gamertag: The Stig Pwnz Steam ID: mod1982	So you think he likes you eh? Well... here's a novel idea then - FIND OUT. And by asking him out for a drink or whatever sorta thing you kids get up to these days, if he says yes then he definitely likes you as a friend. But how to find out if he likes you? From what you've said it sounds like he's pretty keen on you - but you could be misreading the signs. Just ask him to hang out - just you and him - and take it from there. If you both like each other, things will just happen naturally. If it helps, I can tell you how I act around gals I like that way. Normally around the opposite sex, I'm happy and stuff and lark around, generally treating them like they're a good friend and blahblah. If I fancy them, I clam up completely. Hugs are a bit more brief and not as... warm an embrace, as if it were a female I've known for a while. Conversation drys up quickly, and you feel incredibly on edge when the one you like is around. Okay, so from my perspective I've been badly burnt a few times and am very wary of being hurt again. Maybe your guy is sort of the same? Maybe he's afraid to get involved in case you hurt him, and he's holding back? In which case someone's gotta take the lead. If you wanna change think he likes you to know he likes you, you're gonna have to ask some discreet questions, or just go with the flow. Flow is good And if none of that works, give him a kiss on the cheek. If that doesn't make him run a mile then full-on snog him, and thus the deal is sold ^^ And so what if he doesn't like you? Oh well, screw it. You get one chance at life, missy. Might as well snatch at it whilst you have the chance. Ask him out NOW before he asks someone else, and you lose your shot. Think - you could get to 55 with some boring sod for a husband, you'd look back at your life and think "Oh, if only I'd asked him out... I might still be with him now..." Don't NOT do anything - that's the worst thing you can do. Better to find out and get no than live forever living a lie. If he says no it'll hurt, sure. But NO IS JUST A WORD, nothing more. There's plenty more guys out there! Edited by Master of Darkness�, Oct 28 2008, 07:46 PM.
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Lady Miracle	Oct 29 2008, 05:55 PM Post #9
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	I think Rouge X Darkness just gave you the best advice. I agree with him. There's a chance he hasn't talked because he's shy too and is afraid of getting hurt. I understand if you don't want to ask him directly. It'd be extremely awkward, but if he kissed you in the cheek and ran away, that seems like a move to me and an indirect message saying "I know you like me so just tell me!". I quote MoD (Rouge X Darkness): Do something! You will most likely regret not saying anything. Act now, gal. Don't lose him. Even if you do something different than what I suggested, it doesn't matter. Just do something. Besides: Don't talk with him or anything = may never go out with you Do talk with him or something = there's an even chance he'll either turn you down or go out with you See? The first choice kills most of your chances with him. The second one supports them, even if not entirely. I know you may be afraid he'll say no, but he won't say yes if you don't act. Edited by Miracle, Oct 29 2008, 05:59 PM.
	The Muffin Man's wife and a


Summer	Oct 30 2008, 12:58 PM Post #10
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 132 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #9,457 Joined: October 25, 2008	Gasp!! I got grounded! I took yall advise but I may have cause a bit of trouble. Which was why I wasn't on yesterday. So here is what went down. I was planning on what to say when I would meet him in the hallway. but someth'in went down that wasn't suppose to. well not in my book any ways. When I was walking towards the hall were we all ways meet. he wasn't any where to be found. so I keep on walk'n. soon enough there he was. with some tramp leaning all up on him. at this point my anger meter was hit'in warning! I was NOT about to let some tramp from stop'n me from him. So I went over there to them and grabbed his arm and told him that we need to talk. that stupid tramp starts get'n all snotty with me and had the nerve to push me when she was leaving. after that I found my self in the office for giving her a new make over with my own two fist. I only got detention because everyone around who saw what happen said that she started the fight. I felt loved just then.lol. but now I think I got him mad because he didn't talk to me the whole day today. I don't know what I did wrong. any one of yall got any ideas on why would he would have some kind of fit with me?
	"Do you know the first rule of flying?... Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." I got Mew the first time but I missed a question so I redid it


Lady Miracle	Oct 30 2008, 01:50 PM Post #11
[insert something cheerful here] Posts: 8,037 Group: Former Monarchs Member #9,289 Joined: August 20, 2008	My God.Please don't hate me for what I'm about to say. I'm your friend, but I feel that I need to be honest. Well, First of all, I'd have to say that it was wrong of you to fight with her. I repeat, please don't hate me. I'm just saying what it seems to be and I don't mean to insult you or anything, but I have to be blunt here. I know you were mad and probably jealous and, yeah, that's quite normal, but you can't pull him away or give her signs you're against her. Besides, you like the guy too so you can't blame her for having good taste. True, it was rude of her to push, but you sorta provoked her. Think about it; if it were the other way around. If you were with him because you liked him and then some girl just pulled him away from you just because she liked him too. It would get you steamed too, wouldn't it? So maybe you wouldn't have pushed her. That just proves you're better than her. If you're better than her, then why fight? She dared you; you're better so you should've ignored her. No, that wouldn't have been cowardly attitude. You would have been better than her and he would have talked to you. He's probably freaked out because he didn't understand why you did that, or he's mad because you didn't think clearly and hurt a someone he got along with. My advice: Call him. Tell him that you're sorry if you freaked him out, or if you made him angry or something. Then tell him you need to talk with him. Do NOT confess your crush on the phone. It's best that you do it in person. Talking with someone on the phone is way more different than on the phone. If you guys date, it won't be on the phone; it'll be on person. It may be best if you don't tell him in school. It might remind him about what happened; there are more people watching; he has more places to run off to in order to avoid you; class periods may not give enough time to talk; and if he says something that upsets you, you might take all of your classes crying with everyone asking what happened and you may not be able to concentrate on your work. That's all I can say. Just give me a chance to PM you.
	The Muffin Man's wife and a


wowzaa1	Oct 30 2008, 02:22 PM Post #12
You are never quite the person you think you are Posts: 3,081 Group: E Rank Legend Member #4,510 Joined: December 22, 2007	Well, I think you did the right thing. Besides, chics who fight are badass. He'll like that. When you see him next, talk to him. Seriously.



Summer	Nov 1 2008, 03:17 PM Post #13
Marble Garden Act 1 Posts: 132 Group: B Rank Adventurer Member #9,457 Joined: October 25, 2008	Thank you both for the advise and lett'in me know I wasn't all wrong with what I did. but. Gasp! He asked me out! Like I would have never thought he would! Well here is what went down yall. After my little fight and I got grounded I called him up and asked why wasn't he talk'in to me. he said he thought I was mad at him for him talk'in to the tramp. and I said I thought he was mad at me for fight'in her and we started to laugh on the phone. Then I asked if we could meet up somewhere on friday and he said yes. So we meet up and talk for a while of oh gosh he was so cute I forgot what I was going to say to him. but then out of nowhere he grabs my hand while we walked and looks into my eyes and asked me out! oh I blushed soo much and my cheecks hurt from smiling soo much.lol. but I said yes and we walked around some more. but wow I feel soo happy! Thanks yall for all the advise! you all are the greatest. Edited by Summer, Nov 1 2008, 03:17 PM.
	"Do you know the first rule of flying?... Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." I got Mew the first time but I missed a question so I redid it


Brick Mage	Nov 1 2008, 03:45 PM Post #14
I'll be there every step of the way... Posts: 4,813 Group: C Rank Legend Member #1,680 Joined: July 13, 2007	Nice to hear. I followed your topic, but I couldn't quite come up with any advice that wasn't already stated. Congratulations. =D



Lord Master of Darkness�	Nov 1 2008, 04:28 PM Post #15
Posts: 6,570 Group: Former Monarchs Member #6,063 Joined: February 19, 2008 Xbox Live Gamertag: The Stig Pwnz Steam ID: mod1982	...an actual success story for the Advice Corner? GADZOOKS! Congratulations, Firefly!
	Click to go to my YouTube channel - now over 1,200 subscribers! The Gaming MoD - a blog about gaming, by the Master of Darkness. Other links! Great comics currently in existence on SB(and my own, of course): \|Compensation\|~~Bar'd~~\|~~Park And Ride~~\|~~Sonic: Quest for the Chaos Energy~~\| Want your comic here? Make it a good one then! Where to find me on the net: \|~~Bleached Horizons~~\|~~Pitwall F1~~\|DevART\|


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