I Miss Him

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I Miss Him
Tweet Topic Started: Jul 12 2008, 05:01 PM (820 Views)
Shauna	Jul 12 2008, 05:01 PM Post #1
I'MA FIRIN' MA LAZER! Posts: 264 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #9,173 Joined: July 10, 2008	I know this is the last thing you wanna here, but I need serious advice. Basically, I miss my ex. A lot. More than anything actually. History? He was my first ever boyfriend. I'm 16, and he's 14. I guess you could say he swept me off my feet, in a way. I fell for him quickly, and he treated me great, made me feel special. We went out together for four months. I loved him. The problem is, I still do. He dumped me back in May, his reason being, he didn't feel the same anymore, i depended on him too much, but that's only because I was afraid of loosing him. So I guess my efforts to avoid it, caused it. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal to any of you, and you're probably thinking he's 'the first of many' but I have a really hard time letting go, because he was such a sweetheart. I thought I was slowly getting over him, which made me happy. But then another blow hit. He announces that he's going out with my best friend ever less than a month ago. That hurt really badly, because I still have feelings for him. However, I didn't tell my friend this until recently. Things havent changed, and I know they should. I just don't know how to get let go, since I feel like I've been stabbed in the back. My friend was a witness to eveything, and she saw how bad I took it. Friends before boys? Help anyone? Thanks. Shauna
	"Some people call our realm a world of shadows, but that makes it sound unpleasent"


~~Brennen the Vampire~~	Jul 12 2008, 05:09 PM Post #2
Banned Posts: 3,071 Group: Continue? Member #1,722 Joined: July 19, 2007	Mind an online boyfriend for training? I date girls online because I DO love them, it also teaches me how to act in a relationship. Find a guy you like, ask 'em out, hope for a yes. DON'T ASK THEM OUT UNLESS YOU DO LIKE THEM. Don't just ask one out "Cuz I need training." ~Advice from guy with experience on many types of dates, Brennen



Shauna	Jul 12 2008, 05:11 PM Post #3
I'MA FIRIN' MA LAZER! Posts: 264 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #9,173 Joined: July 10, 2008	Brennen the Vampire Jul 12 2008, 05:09 PM Mind an online boyfriend for training? I date girls online because I DO love them, it also teaches me how to act in a relationship. Find a guy you like, ask 'em out, hope for a yes. DON'T ASK THEM OUT UNLESS YOU DO LIKE THEM. Don't just ask one out "Cuz I need training." ~Advice from guy with experience on many types of dates, Brennen I don't like the whole 'online' thing. Ive been involved with it before. I tried asking someone else out once, but it was a rebound lasting a week. Didn't work. Thanks for the advice though. I think that's what I'm lacking...experience.
	"Some people call our realm a world of shadows, but that makes it sound unpleasent"


~~Brennen the Vampire~~	Jul 12 2008, 07:37 PM Post #4
Banned Posts: 3,071 Group: Continue? Member #1,722 Joined: July 19, 2007	Hire a friend to be a date for a day then, pay them atleast ten bucks.



Lady theori	Jul 12 2008, 07:43 PM Post #5
all systems go Posts: 2,969 Group: Former Monarchs Member #482 Joined: January 18, 2007	Time heals all, babe. In the meantime, surround yourself by things you like that make you happy.
	f r e e d o m


clintrussell	Jul 12 2008, 07:44 PM Post #6
Mushroom Hill Act 2 Posts: 775 Group: E Rank Hero Member #676 Joined: March 9, 2007	Brennen the Vampire Jul 12 2008, 07:37 PM Hire a friend to be a date for a day then, pay them atleast ten bucks. That would make them a prostitute....



Shauna	Jul 12 2008, 07:51 PM Post #7
I'MA FIRIN' MA LAZER! Posts: 264 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #9,173 Joined: July 10, 2008	clintrussell Jul 12 2008, 07:44 PM Brennen the Vampire Jul 12 2008, 07:37 PM Hire a friend to be a date for a day then, pay them atleast ten bucks. That would make them a prostitute.... That's what I thought. Thanks much, Brennen.
	"Some people call our realm a world of shadows, but that makes it sound unpleasent"


Neo Metallix	Jul 12 2008, 07:53 PM Post #8
~Doomsday Overlord~ Posts: 15,568 Group: =SB= Emperor Member #1 Joined: April 8, 2006 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Playstation Network ID: Doc_Of_D Game Currently Playing: Tales of Xillia	Get a dog? Do more things with your parents? You shouldn't feel empty because a boyfriend left you, because if you do you are not getting fulfilled in other areas of your life. Just a guess. I'm no psychologist. lol
	Puncture the Porcupine, my fancharacter!


Y HALO THAR	Jul 12 2008, 07:56 PM Post #9
Angel Island Act 1 Posts: 39 Group: E Rank Adventurer Member #9,186 Joined: July 12, 2008	Puppy Love/Teenage Flames. Such a dramatic endeavour. You do not love him. You did not love him. You will get over it. You had a good time. It is over. Go do something you like and get over it before you become one of those stupid teenagers that gets into sexual relationships to make them feel "loved". Quote: Mind an online boyfriend for training? I date girls online because I DO love them, it also teaches me how to act in a relationship. Find a guy you like, ask 'em out, hope for a yes. DON'T ASK THEM OUT UNLESS YOU DO LIKE THEM. Don't just ask one out "Cuz I need training." That is the most pathetic "catch on the rebound" attempt I have ever seen in my life... [/I just joined 10 minutes ago over shooting post.] Edited by Y HALO THAR, Jul 12 2008, 07:57 PM.



Shauna	Jul 12 2008, 07:58 PM Post #10
I'MA FIRIN' MA LAZER! Posts: 264 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #9,173 Joined: July 10, 2008	Quote: Puppy Love/Teenage Flames. Such a dramatic endeavour. You do not love him. You did not love him. You will get over it. You had a good time. It is over. Go do something you like and get over it before you become one of those stupid teenagers that gets into sexual relationships to make them feel "loved". I know youre trying to help, but I really didn't take kindly to that at all. I'm capable of knowing whether I love someone or not. Edited by Shauna, Jul 12 2008, 08:01 PM.
	"Some people call our realm a world of shadows, but that makes it sound unpleasent"


~~Brennen the Vampire~~	Jul 12 2008, 07:59 PM Post #11
Banned Posts: 3,071 Group: Continue? Member #1,722 Joined: July 19, 2007	It works for me...



Y HALO THAR	Jul 12 2008, 08:01 PM Post #12
Angel Island Act 1 Posts: 39 Group: E Rank Adventurer Member #9,186 Joined: July 12, 2008	Shauna Jul 12 2008, 07:58 PM Y HALO THAR Jul 12 2008, 07:56 PM Puppy Love/Teenage Flames. Such a dramatic endeavour. You do not love him. You did not love him. You will get over it. You had a good time. It is over. Go do something you like and get over it before you become one of those stupid teenagers that gets into sexual relationships to make them feel "loved". Quote: Mind an online boyfriend for training? I date girls online because I DO love them, it also teaches me how to act in a relationship. Find a guy you like, ask 'em out, hope for a yes. DON'T ASK THEM OUT UNLESS YOU DO LIKE THEM. Don't just ask one out "Cuz I need training." That is the most pathetic "catch on the rebound" attempt I have ever seen in my life... [/I just joined 10 minutes ago over shooting post.] I know youre trying to help, but I really didn't take kindly to that at all. I knew you wouldn't, but you have no idea how hard it is to word things kindly from this side. Tough Love. <3



Lady theori	Jul 12 2008, 08:03 PM Post #13
all systems go Posts: 2,969 Group: Former Monarchs Member #482 Joined: January 18, 2007	Oh boy, here we go. e_e
	f r e e d o m


Shauna	Jul 12 2008, 08:04 PM Post #14
I'MA FIRIN' MA LAZER! Posts: 264 Group: B Rank Guardian Member #9,173 Joined: July 10, 2008	Y HALO THAR Jul 12 2008, 08:01 PM Shauna Jul 12 2008, 07:58 PM Y HALO THAR Jul 12 2008, 07:56 PM Puppy Love/Teenage Flames. Such a dramatic endeavour. You do not love him. You did not love him. You will get over it. You had a good time. It is over. Go do something you like and get over it before you become one of those stupid teenagers that gets into sexual relationships to make them feel "loved". Quote: Mind an online boyfriend for training? I date girls online because I DO love them, it also teaches me how to act in a relationship. Find a guy you like, ask 'em out, hope for a yes. DON'T ASK THEM OUT UNLESS YOU DO LIKE THEM. Don't just ask one out "Cuz I need training." That is the most pathetic "catch on the rebound" attempt I have ever seen in my life... [/I just joined 10 minutes ago over shooting post.] I know youre trying to help, but I really didn't take kindly to that at all. I knew you wouldn't, but you have no idea how hard it is to word things kindly from this side. Tough Love. <3 Yeah. Okay, I may not be in love. But I'm well capable of knowing whether I love someone or not, despite my age, and I have no intention of becoming involved in that kind of relationship I asure you.
	"Some people call our realm a world of shadows, but that makes it sound unpleasent"


Brick Mage	Jul 12 2008, 08:07 PM Post #15
I'll be there every step of the way... Posts: 4,813 Group: C Rank Legend Member #1,680 Joined: July 13, 2007	Brute Jul 12 2008, 07:43 PM Time heals all, babe. In the meantime, surround yourself by things you like that make you happy. Super agreeness! Time will heal you. I don't have much experience, but I've liked girls before... I felt so heartbroken when one rejected me, but I'm over it now. It's sad to have to leave something/someone that enjoyed being with behind. But think like this: It's a new beginning and I've got the rest of my life to find the right person! Don't waste your time. There's someone out there that's better for you than him. Your topic has officially been Maelicified. Thank you, and have a nice day.



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