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| Topic Started: Jul 12 2008, 06:01 PM (419 Views) | |
| Shauna | Jul 12 2008, 06:01 PM Post #1 |
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I know this is the last thing you wanna here, but I need serious advice. Basically, I miss my ex. A lot. More than anything actually. History? He was my first ever boyfriend. I'm 16, and he's 14. I guess you could say he swept me off my feet, in a way. I fell for him quickly, and he treated me great, made me feel special. We went out together for four months. I loved him. The problem is, I still do. He dumped me back in May, his reason being, he didn't feel the same anymore, i depended on him too much, but that's only because I was afraid of loosing him. So I guess my efforts to avoid it, caused it. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal to any of you, and you're probably thinking he's 'the first of many' but I have a really hard time letting go, because he was such a sweetheart. I thought I was slowly getting over him, which made me happy. But then another blow hit. He announces that he's going out with my best friend ever less than a month ago. That hurt really badly, because I still have feelings for him. However, I didn't tell my friend this until recently. Things havent changed, and I know they should. I just don't know how to get let go, since I feel like I've been stabbed in the back. My friend was a witness to eveything, and she saw how bad I took it. Friends before boys? Help anyone? Thanks. Shauna |
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Jul 12 2008, 06:09 PM Post #2 |
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Mind an online boyfriend for training? I date girls online because I DO love them, it also teaches me how to act in a relationship. Find a guy you like, ask 'em out, hope for a yes. DON'T ASK THEM OUT UNLESS YOU *DO* LIKE THEM. Don't just ask one out "Cuz I need training." ~Advice from guy with experience on many types of dates, Brennen |
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| Shauna | Jul 12 2008, 06:11 PM Post #3 |
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I don't like the whole 'online' thing. Ive been involved with it before. I tried asking someone else out once, but it was a rebound lasting a week. Didn't work. Thanks for the advice though. I think that's what I'm lacking...experience. |
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Jul 12 2008, 08:37 PM Post #4 |
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Hire a friend to be a date for a day then, pay them atleast ten bucks. 
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| Juke Box Hero | Jul 12 2008, 08:43 PM Post #5 |
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Time heals all, babe. In the meantime, surround yourself by things you like that make you happy. |
Devour, Rise and Take Flight.
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| clintrussell | Jul 12 2008, 08:44 PM Post #6 |
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That would make them a prostitute.... |
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| Shauna | Jul 12 2008, 08:51 PM Post #7 |
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That's what I thought. Thanks much, Brennen. 
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| Neo Metallix | Jul 12 2008, 08:53 PM Post #8 |
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Get a dog? Do more things with your parents? You shouldn't feel empty because a boyfriend left you, because if you do you are not getting fulfilled in other areas of your life. Just a guess. I'm no psychologist. lol |
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| Y HALO THAR | Jul 12 2008, 08:56 PM Post #9 |
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Puppy Love/Teenage Flames. Such a dramatic endeavour. You do not love him. You did not love him. You will get over it. You had a good time. It is over. Go do something you like and get over it before you become one of those stupid teenagers that gets into sexual relationships to make them feel "loved".
That is the most pathetic "catch on the rebound" attempt I have ever seen in my life... [/I just joined 10 minutes ago over shooting post.] Edited by Y HALO THAR, Jul 12 2008, 08:57 PM.
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| Shauna | Jul 12 2008, 08:58 PM Post #10 |
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I know youre trying to help, but I really didn't take kindly to that at all. I'm capable of knowing whether I love someone or not. Edited by Shauna, Jul 12 2008, 09:01 PM.
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Jul 12 2008, 08:59 PM Post #11 |
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 It works for me...
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| Y HALO THAR | Jul 12 2008, 09:01 PM Post #12 |
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I knew you wouldn't, but you have no idea how hard it is to word things kindly from this side. Tough Love. <3 |
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| Juke Box Hero | Jul 12 2008, 09:03 PM Post #13 |
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Oh boy, here we go. e_e |
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Devour, Rise and Take Flight.
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| Shauna | Jul 12 2008, 09:04 PM Post #14 |
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Yeah. Okay, I may not be in love. But I'm well capable of knowing whether I love someone or not, despite my age, and I have no intention of becoming involved in that kind of relationship I asure you. |
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| FourShade | Jul 12 2008, 09:07 PM Post #15 |
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Super agreeness! Time will heal you. I don't have much experience, but I've liked girls before... I felt so heartbroken when one rejected me, but I'm over it now. It's sad to have to leave something/someone that enjoyed being with behind. But think like this: It's a new beginning and I've got the rest of my life to find the right person! Don't waste your time. There's someone out there that's better for you than him. Your topic has officially been Maelicified. Thank you, and have a nice day. |
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| E-123 Omega Ω | Jul 12 2008, 09:18 PM Post #16 |
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This worked for the MoD... or rather, it's a WIP. Try it ^^ Quoted for truth, more than anything. |
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| Bowie | Jul 12 2008, 09:21 PM Post #17 |
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I am going to say from personal experience, Love can seem like many things and many strong feelings can be confused as love. I haven't been with anyone, in real life or online, for about a year. The last person claimed to love me and all but I knew that it really wasn't anything true.. and sure enough it wasn't. The only person I ever think I really loved moved to Montana about 3 years ago, I think it is love because I, and even she, haven't forgotten one another and still talk on the net and over the phone when we get the time. Love is with a person you never forget, someone you are sure that even separation by thousands of miles, mountains and oceans, you will continue to think of and try to stay in contact with. It is too soon for me to accurately say whether or not you truly loved, only time will prove your emotions, and thoughts on them, wrong or right. |
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| Neo Metallix | Jul 12 2008, 09:25 PM Post #18 |
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I cleaned the crap out of this thread... Anyway, Bowie, that is true, however even then you don't know if they are true feelings. I once thought about this girl ALL day and couldn't wait to see her everyday. Then she graduated and I never saw her and still thought about her. Now... I don't even think of her... I thought it was love, because I still thought of her a year after I last saw her, but it was just blindingly strong infatuation. |
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| FourShade | Jul 12 2008, 09:28 PM Post #19 |
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"Put your gun in another direction now that you've cried youself to sleep."
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Thanks, Neo. Anyways, love seems to be a hard thing to read. But I think we'll know it for sure when it happens. So, just move on and be patient Shauna, love will find you. |
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| Juke Box Hero | Jul 12 2008, 09:30 PM Post #20 |
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Metallix is being bitter again. Someone spoon feed him some honey. :| |
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Devour, Rise and Take Flight.
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