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Tweet Topic Started: Apr 9 2008, 07:04 PM (840 Views)
Katsuko	Apr 9 2008, 07:04 PM Post #1
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,687 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,933 Joined: August 14, 2007 Gender: Male	--->This is a subsidiary of the Rejects Group.<---- So anyway, here I'll write my take, and my advice for any problem or situation that is PMe'd to me, as is typical of any such column in a newspaper or Magazine. Think "Ask Yvette." You will of course have a relatively degree of privacy; your real screen-name will not be used, although your PM will be quoted (though you can ask me to paraphrase and not use the direct quote if you like. Every day, if I have time, and if I have any PMs, I will answer at least one PM I receive with the request of being put here.
	<3 All you need is love <3


clintrussell	Apr 9 2008, 07:14 PM Post #2
Mushroom Hill Act 2 Posts: 775 Group: E Rank Hero Member #676 Joined: March 9, 2007	http://sonicblast.org/index.php?showforum=107



Katsuko	Apr 10 2008, 04:49 PM Post #3
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,687 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,933 Joined: August 14, 2007 Gender: Male	This is a very different process from that. First of all, we provide privacy, and a more personal setting, as well as a much more systematic and personal approach to advice.
	<3 All you need is love <3


clintrussell	Apr 10 2008, 04:50 PM Post #4
Mushroom Hill Act 2 Posts: 775 Group: E Rank Hero Member #676 Joined: March 9, 2007	Nah, all I'm pointing out is that this topic could go into the "advice" section.



Katsuko	Apr 10 2008, 04:51 PM Post #5
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,687 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,933 Joined: August 14, 2007 Gender: Male	Very true. I should have thought of that. If an admin viewing this would like to move it, I'd be most obliged.
	<3 All you need is love <3


neoaptt	Apr 10 2008, 06:07 PM Post #6
"dead man walking" Posts: 395 Group: E Rank Knight Member #5,689 Joined: February 6, 2008	She is a gal. And i'm a guy. So you can pm me for guy advice and her for girl. And if i have no clue then i'll consult with Yette.



Katsuko	Apr 10 2008, 07:01 PM Post #7
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,687 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,933 Joined: August 14, 2007 Gender: Male	As there are virtually no girls here, just pick randomly <_<
	<3 All you need is love <3


neoaptt	Apr 10 2008, 07:07 PM Post #8
"dead man walking" Posts: 395 Group: E Rank Knight Member #5,689 Joined: February 6, 2008	I guess you can say that. But most guys want advice from girls. Like how to hold there hand. And stuff like that. And most girls ask other girls for help. I'm just here to clarrafie any doubts you might have about yourself and others. I can understand people pretty well. So you just need to describe what happend. Then I'll answer. If i don't have any questions first. (I'm not going to ask you for a picture of you or the girl... Unless you say yes that is...)



Lord Master of Darkness�	Apr 10 2008, 07:29 PM Post #9
Posts: 6,570 Group: Former Monarchs Member #6,063 Joined: February 19, 2008 Xbox Live Gamertag: The Stig Pwnz Steam ID: mod1982	Well let's wait and see what happens, shall we? ^^ Kudos to you both for wanting to help!
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neoaptt	Apr 10 2008, 07:30 PM Post #10
"dead man walking" Posts: 395 Group: E Rank Knight Member #5,689 Joined: February 6, 2008	Kudos?



Katsuko	Apr 11 2008, 06:04 PM Post #11
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,687 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,933 Joined: August 14, 2007 Gender: Male	Kudos: a congratulatory exclamation. From: Anonymous Quote: So I have this friend. I like her a lot, but she has a boyfriend. I like her friend too, but I don't think she will go out with me. Unfortunately, her other friend likes me, but I only like her as a sister; I was considering going out with her so that it made her feel better... but then one of my guy friends likes her and she hates him; he told me not to go out with her. Then on the 19 I will be going with this friend that likes me to a bonzia staff meeting (a meeting for staff at the anime convention) it will just be me and her, on the 19, a Saturday. We will be together from 9:00 am to about 1:00 pm, and i don't think i can talk her out of it, and i don't want to either. I have asked everybody I know who likes anime to come with me, but they all have plans (i think some of the girls friends that i asked ether hate me to much to go. I want to give the girl a chance with me. And the friends of mine that i asked, just won't come...) I have only known this girl for about 2 months. And i don't know what I should do. Dear Anonymous, Go as her friend, but don't overstep your boundaries. It sounds like you have nice bunch of friends, that you should hold onto; you don't want something as fickle as romance to mess something that precious up. Now don't get me wrong. I can empathize with how you feel, and how she probably feels. It's natural to want to feel needed. We all want to feel like someone out there is happy that we are the way we are, and needs us to be that way. Romance is something that reassures us of ourselves, and reminds us that we matter. It gives us that needed feeling of being lovable. But take my word for it, right now, that's an illusion. Crushes pass, but real friendship can last a lifetime. Although it doesn't have all the glamor of moonlit romance, really deep and true friendship can show that you are so much more lovable than any kiss. Anyone can take your body and make it feel good, but it's you, and only you that can give the unique, and valuable thing that is yourself. Only you can be the friend that you are. Don't go out with the girl just to make her feel good, because if it's not what you really want, it's just going to hurt her all the more if and when she finds out, and what's more, it could hurt your friendship with the other boy. Instead, be her friend, and be his friend. Do everything you can to be there for them; listen to them, talk to them, play with them, do anime with them, sacrifice your wants and needs for their wants and needs... just be normal, and be yourself, and maybe eventually something wonderful will happen to you and her, or her and your friend, or maybe it won't. But right now, that's not what matters. What matters is that you're there for both of them, as a true and loving friend. As for the anime convention, go ahead and go with her! Just keep it friendly.
	<3 All you need is love <3


Neo Metallix	Apr 11 2008, 06:31 PM Post #12
~Doomsday Overlord~ Posts: 15,568 Group: =SB= Emperor Member #1 Joined: April 8, 2006 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Playstation Network ID: Doc_Of_D Game Currently Playing: Tales of Xillia	Kudos is also a delicious chocolatey snack.. I'm contemplating whether or not to pin this topic.
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neoaptt	Apr 14 2008, 05:22 AM Post #13
"dead man walking" Posts: 395 Group: E Rank Knight Member #5,689 Joined: February 6, 2008	I don't think i have anything to add Yette. I think i might know who this person is. But I am obligated not to tell. So good luck "Mr. Joe"! Or if you are a bi or lez girl... Good luck "Mrs. Joe"!



Katsuko	Apr 14 2008, 02:20 PM Post #14
Sandopolis Act 1 Posts: 1,687 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,933 Joined: August 14, 2007 Gender: Male	Quote: Or if you are a bi or lez girl... Good luck "Mrs. Joe Don't make me create an independent serious column <_<
	<3 All you need is love <3


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