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| Topic Started: Apr 4 2008, 07:49 PM (1,169 Views) | |
| neoaptt | Apr 4 2008, 07:49 PM Post #1 |
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"dead man walking"
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Need help? I'll pull up a few quotes of mine. Need a situwaytion stated out and need my help? Ask me.
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| clintrussell | Apr 4 2008, 08:28 PM Post #2 |
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Mushroom Hill Act 2
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That, or she thinks your a conceited faggort and doesn't want anything to do with you. |
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| Yves | Apr 4 2008, 08:52 PM Post #3 |
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Le Marteau Velouté
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You boys make me so pissed <_< Ok, you want a date, here's the first rule: Drop the egotism. You're not Hercules, and you're not the most amazing thing since Jesus-juice. Be a normal, average guy who respects women, and sees them as people and not some.... animal to be manipulated through her insecurities and desires!!! You want us to care about you? It's simple. Care about us and our feelings on a level somewhat deeper than some transient desire for sex and affirmation of your little piece of BS, "manhood."
Good advice if you're friends. But if you're anything more than that, she should feel special, just like you should. Do you want your wife to treat you like her girl-friends?
The worst thing that could happen here is that she'll believe you. The potential for harm here is exponential. No. The trick here is to find something you genuinely admire and like. Find TRUE things to build her self-esteem with, not lies aimed at manipulating her to like you, like some selfish prig.
Be yourself, and let us think for ourselves. And for heaven sake, don't argue with us about who we like X_X Don't be affectatious or pretentious, or full of yourself. We can tell, and we hate that.
There's good advice in every rotten barrel. Thus, this quote.
If you want to keep your gf FOR THE LOVE ALL THAT IS HOLY, NO!
This has to do with the individual girl. Some can be told that their fat, and love you for it; others will hate you for the rest of your life. (I personally hate you pretty much for being interested in me in the first place, but that's just me). In any case, know who you're talking to, and be accordingly evasive. Finding a way to kindly say "I care about you despite your faults," is generally the best course of action. We don't like being lied to, but we don't like feeling insecure with our faults either.
My nausea knows no bounds.
WTF are you talking about?
BS. Grow up, and learn to care about people besides yourself. But yeah, there's value to not taking things personally, although it should be due to humility, and not blatant, hateful and cynical apathy <_<
For a moment there, I honestly hoped that you'd say this to the wrong person, that she'd be hurt by it, kill herself, and make your realize the complete BS your preaching. I'm not normally that hateful. You, my friend, have achieved new grounds with my already feminist attitudes.
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| Jacob | Apr 4 2008, 09:00 PM Post #4 |
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Hardcore critic.
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Yea that's right. Got your *** kicked.... Side note, I haven't even read this topics except for Yvette’s post.... So here’s my advice for you... Ask yourself, " Can this girl help me breed a superior race?" ( direct quote from house).. .......Please don't rip to sunders Yvette...I'm just joking. * winces* Hmm, Just by looking at that one post and knowing the user I can guess that she's properly in the right, So I’ll spare you some painful sarcasm and ranting and give us both a break. EDIT: Side note. What the hell are you using the word **Bleep** here? unless that word has a meaning I don't know it seems kinda....Mean....and offensive. EDIT AGAIN! Yea, Yvette was right. This isn't very good advice... There's a few decent pieces, other than that bleh. |
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Annoy me and i'll bite your head off. * Warning. Hardcore critic posting* Friends: None. ( The mighty Jacob needs no friends) | |
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| Duckroll | Apr 4 2008, 09:22 PM Post #5 |
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AS IF
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Shoot. I just realized by that quote that you're every guy I ever hated. IF SOMEONE DISLIKES PHYSICAL CONTACT, GLOMPING DOESN'T HELP. |
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| Yves | Apr 4 2008, 09:40 PM Post #6 |
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Le Marteau Velouté
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I'm tempted... I'm sorely tempted. .. .. .. Aww, you know I'm kidding you Jacob *glomps and huggles*
AMEN! *cough* usually *cough* |
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| Vermillion | Apr 4 2008, 09:48 PM Post #7 |
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Zack Fair (Final Fantasy VII)
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Psh, I'm too scared of chicks. they usually come up to me and I'm like "^______^;;;;;;; HIIIII" |
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| Sebastian the Hedgehog | Apr 4 2008, 09:56 PM Post #8 |
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CANADIAN EH
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Okay, that's not fair. You can't say all guys are like that, because we're not. Dude, this advice fails. I agree with Yvette. It's how I treat my girlfriend, and now we're near 7 months. |
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Neo Metallix
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Apr 4 2008, 10:00 PM Post #9 |
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~=Metal Overlord=~
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I'm not scared of them but I keep my distance, Vermillion. Most of them are superficial sluts that are just disgusting. When they check me out, I just ignore them. UGH!!! I hate 'em!! Those girls who only care about big muscles and a nice a$$. Or those girls who are stuck up and conceited. 90% of them are that way!! My hate for these girls is deep. I'm actually surprised, no SHOCKED, when I meet a girl that is actually nice... |
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| Jacob | Apr 4 2008, 10:05 PM Post #10 |
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Hardcore critic.
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Better watch yourself man. Yvette will rip your heart and eat it before you can blink. 90%? That seems kinda harsh. I know some very nice girls.. However perhaps it's different over by you...Meh as far as Yvette being pissed with boys. Meh....Bad choice of words on her part or something. |
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Annoy me and i'll bite your head off. * Warning. Hardcore critic posting* Friends: None. ( The mighty Jacob needs no friends) | |
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| shadowsminion | Apr 4 2008, 10:07 PM Post #11 |
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Diamond: Protector of Space
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I don't have a girl friend (quite glad actually, I'm the only guy to be able to control his emotions... that's sad) so I really can't judge this, but I treat girls with respect, they're not trophies, prizes, etc. THEY ARE HUMANS!!! Yeah, to all you girl obbsesed guys out there, girls are our equals, remember that. One of my best friends is a girl, last time I checked she wasn't a trophy and if a guy said any of the stuff in this topic to her... well lets just say it'd be the last thing he would ever say. Think about it, it's just cruel to say most of this stuff to ANYONE! If you wouldn't say it to your best friend, why to the girl you like? It's called logic. No offense to who ever wrote this but I am right, you are wrong... I'm very sorry if this offends you. OH! And Yvette, not all guys are like that, I'm not, that's a stereotype... which is bad. And some girls suck up to guys, like my best friends ex-girlfriend, I wanted to kill her, she tried to ruin our friendship. Okay, so please, next time think of those who don't go all GA-GA over girls. Those (me) who treat them as equals. Thanks, you're awesome! (that last part was RANDOM!) |
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Neo Metallix
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Apr 4 2008, 10:14 PM Post #12 |
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Well, you must not know very many women then. It's all about how sexy you are and I've seen it. If a guy is ugly they won't even be friends with that person. And she can rip me however she wants, it doesn't change the facts. It could just be because of the place I grew up in, but that's my experience. If a hot girl wants me, I tend to just stay away. The hot ones are hot and they know it, so they're automatically stuck up and they'll likely leave you when they find someone better. But it's not just the hot ones that are stuck up and only care about looks either. Maybe someday I'll meet a "real" girl, but until then my outlook will remain the same. Plus I agree with Yvette about the advice posted in the first post. It is flawed in so many ways. I was going to point it out, but Yvette already did. |
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| Vermillion | Apr 4 2008, 10:14 PM Post #13 |
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Zack Fair (Final Fantasy VII)
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I totally agree with you, this group of chicks just kept following me and my bro everywhere, saying crap like "OHHH LOOK AT HIS BUTT, HE'S A MANNNN" me and my bro just kinda looked back at them and gave them a dirty look, and then fled off into the shoe department but they dressed and acted like total sluts.Too many people are like that these days. |
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| khoreii | Apr 5 2008, 05:08 AM Post #14 |
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Come on, give it to me, don't stop, let me feel it.
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Like I said... gay is the way to go. That way, there's no guesswork involved. Heck yes. <-- is joking. |
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| cap | Apr 5 2008, 05:58 AM Post #15 |
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Wired to the moon
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amen to that. Alot of girls are superfiscal sluts. Not them all. But enough. Its nice when you meet the ones that aren't. Honestly though. Advice=sucks. |
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| Skippy | Apr 5 2008, 06:02 AM Post #16 |
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L'chiam!
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the girl i like probably thinks i'm a *bleep!*ing retard. |
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| neoaptt | Apr 5 2008, 08:52 AM Post #17 |
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"dead man walking"
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NOW i see. why everyone has there own opintion. just look at what i got yall to say? this is way better than what i could come up with. But in the long run. People have their own way of being themselves. Like i said "example" this is my example of me talking with a girl. Every1 who knows me know what i'm like. So i can get away with it. you can't say if you like me or not from the internet. I have ways of making things work. You may think what what the advice i gave the guys might be opsolite. But you are exacly right. It sucks. And you know why. This is for all the guys who think this is good advice. Then an acual girl comes around and says it sucks. Then the guys readding this have an apifiny. like "yah this really does suk. So screw you neoaptt". I don't take things online personaly since i'm never going to see you in real life. And i have no obligation to make amends with someone i never will see. |
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| Yves | Apr 5 2008, 09:19 AM Post #18 |
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Le Marteau Velouté
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Lol, Neo, that's about as believable a ruse as Royal's alt characters. And whether you like it or not, people are people on the internet, and hate is hate, and feelings are feelings. It's great if you've learned not to let things bug you; we should all do that in real life too! But, we should'nt have apathy for people and their feelings just because "IT'S TEH INTERNETZ!"
Actually, most of us like retards; it makes us feel more secure with ourselves, and less afraid of you ![]()
Last night, I really was pissed with guys for existing though. Most men that I know really are like Neo's guide suggest, and are absolutely full of themselves, and want nothing out of me but something to stroke their egos with. Granted, there are some wonderful guys out there; they're just generally not as interested in women as the others. Prince Charming is rare phenomenon indeed.
Lol, gender wars for the win! Actually, I'm inclined to agree with Neo here. I simply hate romance altogether, because it brings out the worst in everyone. Truth be told, most of these superficial sluts are relatively nice people who are either terrified, or incompetent. I suppose the boys I'm so annoyed with are probably the same way when you take them out of a romantic setting.
Stereotypes are well-founded generalizations based on a wealth of prior experience. Although they can not be practically applied to every individual, or used in anything other than theoretical thinking, they can give us a fairly good idea of what the negatives or positives of a specific culture are. In short, stereotypes are based on truth, and are only bad when used practically.
Lol, even I'm not this harsh. I think the culture of the society you've grown up in may be somewhat demented... I mean, even I don't have this cynical a view of men ![]()
OH, a true stereotype indeed. Beauty is bad for your ego. I agree here almost whole-heartedly, although there are some nice ones out there. Let's try not to be too bitter though X_X
Bah, humbug. I think you may be confusing stuck up with insecure and in need of affirmation.
Best of luck with that Although, I would argue that a positive, or at least open attitude usually help with such things.
AMERICA, AMERICA, HOW WE LOVE YOUR WESTERN CULTURE! WITH RICH YOUNG SLUTS, AND INCOMPETENT PARENTS, YOUR VIRTUES FLY ON AND ON! AND IN EUROPE, WE'RE JUST AS GOOD, WITH A SPOILED WELFARE CULTURE, AND WHINEY YOUTH WHO WONT GIVE UP A JOB THEY SUCK BALLS AT, SO CROWN OUR GOOD, WITH BROTHERHOOD, FROM SEA, TO POLLUTED UKRAINE! But seriously guys, I hate flirtatious girls as much as the next person, but be careful what you say. We're more sensitive than you give us credit for. Also, there IS a female minority here, who wouldn't want to feel unwelcome (*IS A BLATANT AND UNABASHED HYPOCRITE*) |
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| neoaptt | Apr 5 2008, 11:26 AM Post #19 |
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"dead man walking"
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Well stated. I really don't know what to say... I mean i have a few core belives that i can share but you'll think there stupid. Or steriotypish. I don't know. Right now i'm outside waching my garrage sale go to hell. So i really can't think of anything deep right now. |
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Neo Metallix
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Apr 5 2008, 11:28 AM Post #20 |
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Well I am positive that I won't always meet a slut, and I am positive I will meet someone that isn't that way. Oh and that reminds me! Girls are also liars! Too many times I've had a girl lie to me to not hurt my feelings, when they just got hurt once I found out the truth... I like brutal honesty! It's not so hard to hurt my feelings, because atleast if you're telling the truth it's the truth. I'm really care free so I don't take things too seriously.. |
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but they dressed and acted like total sluts.


Although, I would argue that a positive, or at least open attitude usually help with such things.
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