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i need some help
Topic Started: Apr 1 2008, 12:56 PM (361 Views)
Raedo
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I need some help. There is a girl in my school that I like. Not just like, I love her. :wub: I really want to tell her how I feel but I don't know how to. Thanks if you could help me.
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Well to tell you the truth you wont get any far without giving a chance on asking her if she wants to go out with you on a cinema or maybe something else that could maybe turn her interest to you.

So go straight forwards and ask if she want to go out with you. If she says no. Then i am sorry, though it can alos be other reasons. Though you never know before you act. ;)

That is the only advice i can give you because i did never act and i didn't go anywhere.
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I know exactly how you feel bro, got the same with a girl from my church... but my best advice to you is, make a good bond with her... When the moment is there tell her, try to get her in a good mood to tell her though.
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Thank you for the advice. I will try to get to know her a lot more. Then when the time is right I will tell her. Thanks again.

If anyone has more advice you can post it if you want. I will take all advice.
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Like i said eirlyer.










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Apr 1 2008, 11:58 AM
Heh... Time for my time for shining time!!! TIME!!!

Well.

Fist off, don't act diffrently when your with her than when your with your best friend.

If she says shes ugly, then turn around and tell her that shes a **Bleep**ing goddess.

If she is afraid of touching people. Give her hugs and walk along side her. And when the time is right just hold her hand.

If she likes a nother guy. Pay attention and lern what she thinks and likes about the guy. Then try to perswade her that you are better for her.

Allways take her needs first. Ask her questions. Never ramble about yourself.

If she ask you a question. Aswer it! Be truethful. even if the truth hurts. Its better to be trustworthy and hurtful than a SAP!

If she is curious about why you started to act diffrently. SHOW HER THIS TOPIC! (Trust me, i did that about 6 times for 4 diffrent girls they all got a laugh out of it.) On the good side, You got her to know that you are insacure about her feelings for you. And on the bad side. you have to explain any questions she might have. But if you don't know the anwser then have HER wright a replie to this topic.

Don't over do it. Don't buy her lots of gifts. (besides, then you will only have to buy her more) Give her things you created or made yourself.

From what i have read about you. You are shy. You should definatly ask her to read this with you. so that you can ask her, her optionions about this. (then secrecly wright back to me and tell me what she said about my post) Anyway... (since she is probebly reading this)

Try to be her closest friends. Then try to be even more closer. If she is touchable. PLAY!!! *cough cough*

Anyways hope you the best of luk.

Neoaptt - out.







But i would like to know what goes on. So taht i can give you a more in depth answer.

But all i got was a 2 sentance problem So i'll give a 2 cent answer!

Yey ME!
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You are never quite the person you think you are
Do you love her or just love her looks?
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Raedo
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Thanks for the advice neoaptt. And I do love her for who she is. Not just her looks.
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what advice? This advice sucks. I haven't gotten laid once!!!

but you do get a lot of close friends and you are never spoken bad about. Unless there is a jelous guy.

But then you can become his friend. And when he trust you completely. Slowly monipulate his life untill it turns to hell and he commits suicide.

That could just be me. But you get the point.

Don't make enimies. And remember this. This is what my dad said to me

"don't take stuff personaly. Because deep down. No one really cares about your emotions. So just let it pass and get on with it. No reason to hold onto feelings that others don't care about. So don't play this guilt trip no one will care enough to help. Expeuly in your generation."

so i take things light headedly. When a girl says she hates me. I ask her why and then when i get down to the bottom of it. I can fix it.

With this attitude no one can stay mad at you for more than a day. And you can't stay mad at anyone. Once you sit down and think things out.

oh yah. And when you talk to a girl. Don't anilize every word she says.

If you get caught on something like. example

"hey one of my boyfriends told me that you arn't all that cool."

don't spend all your day figuring out who her boyfriend is. She is probebly just messing with you. So you mess back.

"wow. You must be a slut. Since your talking to me and i'm uncool. You must want me to **Bleep** or something."

I know it sounds cheesey and arse crazy but.

"wow. you are rude and selfish."

then

"Well you went out of your way to tell me that one of your boyfirends told me that im not cool. How you struck up a conversation i can only imagine. 'hey you know so-and-so right?' (guy)'yah, he is really uncool'. So why would you start up a conversation about me unless you were checking me out?"

Her

"..."

She walks away or say something like

"cheap arse"

or something else rude. Then you folow her and say.

"What are you doning saturday night?"


TUH DA!!! You just got a date.
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