Sibling Rivalry

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Sibling Rivalry
Tweet Topic Started: Mar 23 2008, 07:10 AM (590 Views)
Lady theori	Mar 23 2008, 07:10 AM Post #1
all systems go Posts: 2,969 Group: Former Monarchs Member #482 Joined: January 18, 2007	Hey, guys... I'd normally never ever post anything about my life here but I'm just wondering if any of you have any good advice for me. My sister is psychotic, as I've mentioned before. She's never home, either, always at her boyfriend's, working or college. But when she is home... she's just a big bee with an itch to me. My dad and I are pretty close but when she comes home and we all talk about stuff together, she makes fun of me constantly, calls me stupid in roundabout ways and makes me seem inferior. Now, normally, I wouldn't give a care. But it's getting to the point where I don't want her around, and that's not what I want because she's my sister. I dread going anywhere with the family now because she's such a condescending jerk to me and it makes me really upset. Of course, I'd never talk to her about it because she thinks everything's a joke and would come up with some sort of witty retort. Anyone have any idea what I should do?
	f r e e d o m


clintrussell	Mar 23 2008, 08:00 AM Post #2
Mushroom Hill Act 2 Posts: 775 Group: E Rank Hero Member #676 Joined: March 9, 2007	Get your mom to sick the lizards on her. Haha no no. Just talk to her about it and if you don't want to do that just...start making fun of her. Let her see how it feels.



Lady BlizShadow	Mar 23 2008, 08:19 AM Post #3
I still can't use this. Posts: 6,546 Group: Former Monarchs Member #6,722 Joined: March 16, 2008	(Older?) Siblings tend to do this all the time, sometimes without even really knowing how you feel about it. I suffer such abuse from my brother a lot of the time which, although stings sometimes, is still his way of showing that he's finally come to tolerate me as a family member. XP But even then, I've figured out that one of the best ways to conquer it is to simply play their own game. You'd be surprised how good it feels to corner them with your own wits and insults. However, if it is as out of hand as you say, I'd let your parents know how you feel about it. They'll certainly understand your plight and put a leash on your sister's backlash whenever they can.
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Neo Metallix	Mar 23 2008, 08:50 AM Post #4
~Doomsday Overlord~ Posts: 15,568 Group: =SB= Emperor Member #1 Joined: April 8, 2006 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Playstation Network ID: Doc_Of_D Game Currently Playing: Tales of Xillia	Good thing I never had to deal with this. Only child, ftw... Well, I would have liked it at the same time as being happy not to have dealt with it. Funny how that goes...
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cap	Mar 23 2008, 09:03 AM Post #5
Wired to the moon Posts: 2,049 Group: C Rank Adventurer Member #5,164 Joined: January 17, 2008	Speaking from an older sibling's point of view, just point out its getting offensive and hurtful. Trust me, deep down no older sibling really wants to offend or hurt their brothers or sisters. I am an older brother, and sure I tease my little brother, but I would never intend to truly hurt his feelings. Just tell her, I'm sure she dosen't mean to really annoy you to that extent, or think that she is.
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Vednix	Mar 23 2008, 09:09 AM Post #6
The Dragon Whisperer Posts: 1,357 Group: A Rank Hero Member #34 Joined: April 22, 2006	Is your sister older? It would help a lot if I knew whether she is older or younger. Plus the age would help also. If it's starting to hurt a lot then I suggest you talk to your parents, let them know what's going on. If you feel you shouldn't, I suggest either trying to insult her back, getting her out of her insulting rage, or sit her down and talk it over with her. Hope that helps. ~Flail, the Psychiatrist =P
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Neo Metallix	Mar 23 2008, 09:13 AM Post #7
~Doomsday Overlord~ Posts: 15,568 Group: =SB= Emperor Member #1 Joined: April 8, 2006 Gender: Male Country: United States of America Playstation Network ID: Doc_Of_D Game Currently Playing: Tales of Xillia	Insulting her back won't do anything, but make it worse.
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sMy PANCAKES	Mar 23 2008, 11:17 AM Post #8
Self-loathing optimist. Posts: 1,272 Group: A Rank Hero Member #5,777 Joined: February 9, 2008 Playstation Network ID: sMy_PANCAKES Game Currently Playing: Hyperdimension Neptuina mk 2	When she insults you, fake a seizure and load her with guilt! GUHAHAHAHA! Nah no no kidding. Just don't let it bother you. Ignore her. I hate to be cliche' but its probably just a phase. If you show that it don't bother you, then it will just fade away.
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Lord DragonFlame	Mar 23 2008, 11:42 AM Post #9
Christmas is back again Posts: 17,411 Group: Former Monarchs Member #348 Joined: December 9, 2006 Gender: Male Steam ID: Warzak85DF	I know how you feel cuz i have a bigger sibling as well. They are realy a pest, though i am 22 and now she is 26. We are cainda getting better along with each other at this moment, though sometimes those fights are compleatly impossible to ignore as she realy naggs about. And we starts this so called who can the biggest insult we can come up with. Though we usually seperates before getting overhand like we sometimes did when we where both younger about at teenage. So trying to make fun of your sister is just gonna make it harder. Actually trying to avoid her when she arrives might be the best situation. It aint like the best way, though she might grew up and eventually get some sense on her small brats. Though consult it with your parents they might be able to help out.
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Lady theori	Mar 23 2008, 12:46 PM Post #10
all systems go Posts: 2,969 Group: Former Monarchs Member #482 Joined: January 18, 2007	If you guys say so. I'll give it a shot at some point, I guess, maybe when I'm driving her home from her boyfriend's. And yeah, she's older by two years. She'll be twenty in May, I'll be eighteen in September, so we're nineteen and seventeen right now. Sorry for the short reply, I'll add a bit more to this when I get home 'cause she's here with me. We're at my grandparents right now (bored as hell, don't accuse me of being anti-social).
	f r e e d o m


Whisp	Mar 23 2008, 01:12 PM Post #11
ahem...FALCON PUNCH!!! Posts: 1,565 Group: S Rank Hero Member #1,516 Joined: June 27, 2007	ummm...when my sister pisses me off i just walk away but seing as your sister takes everything as a joke she might think your a wimp...try to blackmail her(jk).i would ignore her and maybe she will just leave you alone OR try yo avoid her al together.idk.



Kitm	Mar 23 2008, 03:52 PM Post #12
Lava Reef Act 1 Posts: 2,977 Group: =SB= Governors Member #1,073 Joined: May 18, 2007 Gender: Male Country: Canada Game Currently Playing: Destiny	I, being a middle chlid, know a lot about sibling rivalry. Just ignore the comments, and talk and hang out with her when she's in a good mood.



Lady theori	Mar 23 2008, 04:30 PM Post #13
all systems go Posts: 2,969 Group: Former Monarchs Member #482 Joined: January 18, 2007	I'm a middle child, too... Got a ten-year-old brother, but at least he doesn't verbally slap me. Bah, whatever. I'll just keep hiding in my room when she's home. Simple solutions for simple situations. (8 And I'll hang out with her when her boyfriend's around. She gets really silent and mollified when he's around.
	f r e e d o m


Duckroll	Mar 24 2008, 10:06 AM Post #14
AS IF Posts: 4,604 Group: A Rank Legend Member #533 Joined: February 2, 2007	I have sister problems too. Unfortunately we have to share a room, sothere's no getting away from her. She's constantly angry, and yells at me and hits me. The only thing to do is avoid her and not touch her stuff. D:
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Haro	Apr 25 2008, 11:41 PM Post #15
"Hmph."-In slow motion Posts: 1,774 Group: S Rank Hero Member #7,401 Joined: April 13, 2008	Sorry for the big bump. Anyway...Ignore her existance. It will piss her off to the limit, and she can't do anything because you technically "Didn't do anything", and no violence will be involved. If not, just talk it out.



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