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| Tweet Topic Started: Feb 16 2008, 12:23 PM (891 Views) | |
| gh0stg1rl | Feb 16 2008, 12:23 PM Post #1 |
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Okay. So right now I have this online boyfriend whom I've met a few times and I have this girl who is there in person who is in love with me. I love my boyfriend with everything I am -- he's pretty much perfect for me. He's tall, dark-haired, adorable, artistic, Christian, huggable, funny, optimistic... I can't even begin to list off the things that are good about him. Now for the cheesy part: he brightens my day whenever things aren't going right, he always knows what to say when I'm having issues, I love talking to him... he might be getting me a promise ring soon. And he's willing to let me do what I want. The thing is, I want more. I want to be a teenager -- I'm 15, I need to use my years of being in high school to my advantage. I'll only have like 3 years in college to screw around and stuff, so I want high school to be special. The girl, Laurel, is very very pretty. She's very nice but she has a few issues. Hey, I do, too... so that's fine. She's a little overweight because she was depressed because she went to a mental hospital for a bit since her life is so #$%*ed up but I don't mind. She dresses well. Anyway. She's very creative and very romantic, has the prettiest singing voice I have ever heard. She's a HUGE b**** when it comes to speaking her mind, but it makes me like her more. I like girls with opinions. She's liked me since November and everybody but me knew about it and admittedly I had a slight crush on her. It kind of exploded into strong feelings over this past weekend. Basically, on... Tuesday after school she texted me while I was at my locker saying "hey I need to talk to you outside, come asap please" and I go see her and she's like "I like you a lot" then later on that night through texting she admits she's in love with me. So I feel all bubbly inside and eagerly await the next school day. blah blah blah stuff happens, it's a snow day, I get all mad. Then Thursday is the v-day dance. We go together in frilly dresses, knee high socks, converse, and armwarmers. Scene kid thing to do I guess. It was fun, we slow danced a few times and we hung out and she never really smiles but she just seemed so happy throughout the dance. So our little posse goes to Laurel's and we crash in her living room and sleep till like 8:30. Jaylyn leaves at 6 for a hair appointment, Harley and Carly leave at 10 for Harley's house, it's just Laurel and I. We watch a gory movie and I'm pretty much hiding under the blankets next to her and she's laughing at me and tells me it's cute and I get all "sdklfllksdjf *blush*". Later on, we're hanging out in the main part of her house where the computer, table and where she does her hair is. I'm drawing and she wants to see it and me being the lovely flirt I am keeps it from her and demands something in return for viewage of the picture. Finally, she just... kisses me. Needless to say, I let her see. She said it was amazing. Later on I'm drawing again and I do the same thing, this time she tries making out with me. I didn't know what the heck I was doing so I pulled away and was liike "uhh I don't know what I'm doing" and she laughs and says "looks like somebody doesn't know how to open their mouth". So I blush and apologize a bunch and she says it's okay a bunch and yeah, stuff like that. She says she doesn't want to rush things, and I have a boyfriend anyway. We went to a local show later on with all our friends and we held hands a few times, it was nice. I had to go home after that so she kissed me and told me she loved me and she'd miss me while she was in New York. I am in love with my boyfriend. He's amazing -- everything I've dreamed of... but I need somebody there. Somebody who can be there for me. I'm thinking of dating the girl during school, and my current boyfriend during the summer when I can actually see him. I think he'd be fine with this since he's accepting of a lot of things I want to do as long as they're not drugs. But... I dunno. What do I do? I'm kind of confused. Yes, yes. I'm bisexual, sorry if you don't like it. halp plz? |
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| cap | Feb 16 2008, 12:38 PM Post #2 |
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hmm. you swing both ways. Thats a strange posistion to be in, one i doubt anyone else has any experience in. The truth, high school maybe the perfect time to screw around, but trust me, out of nowhere school work will pile up. I suspose I could say somthing chessy, like do what your heart tells you. But in truth you should put yourself in a situation that makes you feel comfortable. Maybe try to telling both your partner whats happening, sure they'll understand. |
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| Lady theori | Feb 16 2008, 12:51 PM Post #3 |
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DATE THEM BOTH AT THE SAME TIME! You know it would be amazing. Or Murphey's Law would kick in. Either way, it'd still rock hardcore. |
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Feb 16 2008, 12:57 PM Post #4 |
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Yeah rocking hardcore, except for the fact you can't love two people... Not like that. You 'll end up loving one and not the other... As for you wanting to live out your teen years. Um... I don't remember living teen years had to mean you had to do anything like this... Partying is not living and having a good time is not living, it just gets you into deep Shizz. |
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| Lady theori | Feb 16 2008, 12:59 PM Post #5 |
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I was joking. D: We've already talked about it over AIM, and I still have no idea what to tell her. xD |
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| gh0stg1rl | Feb 16 2008, 01:03 PM Post #6 |
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I'm not talking about partying. Parties = not my thing. I'm talking about romances that will sweep you off your feet (much like this one is turning out to be), skateboarding at 2 in the morning around town even if you're not supposed to, going to shows and moshing/hardcore dancing, drinking Jones soda on the brick wall in the middle of town, doing nothing but walking from one end of town to the other with your best buds and only stopping for ice cream, eating whole pizzas with your crew... stupid silly stuff. And I want somebody special to do those things with. I need somebody there. But I need a relationship that will make me feel complete, which both are turning out to be. Plus, I've never really kissed before and it made me feel all electric and alive and jittery, that's probably contributing to my confusion. |
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| Lord DragonFlame | Feb 16 2008, 01:05 PM Post #7 |
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Well, i would say the same thing as cap-dude. Follow your heart though it seems you need some advice. Now that makes it into another way of saying. If you want to date with her. Do it, and see how it ends. Just dont make up and end with a relationship until you have find out if he is an even bigger charmer. Hell, i dont know what else to say. Stick to the one you feel the most for. |
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Feb 16 2008, 01:24 PM Post #8 |
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I see. The way you said it made it sound like all you wanted to do was have a good time with anyone who would want to have a short relationship with you. I'd go for the guy or find a guy that you can be with near you. That girl doesn't really like you... She likes the idea of being with someone. She's just confuzzled. lol I'm sure she thinks you are a cool person, but liking someone like that... Um, I don't think she knows her true feelings. Also kissing is nice. I did it for the first time recently, but you don't like her either. You just like kissing and basing a relationship off of those kinds of feelings will only end up in you breaking up in the future unless you really do like her in the end, but you don't know that yet. |
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| gh0stg1rl | Feb 16 2008, 01:33 PM Post #9 |
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...but we've known each other for years. I DO like her, and I know for a fact I like her. We have the same tastes in music. She's creative, funny, nice, mean when she needs to be, beautiful, etc. She's liked me for a while now. I've liked her, too. Before she told me I used to get butterflies being around her and I looked forward to talking to her. Yeah, we both like the idea of being with somebody but we're not rushing things for a reason... we want to make sure everything will work out fine. I'm asking for advice now so I can think on things over the next month. If I wanted a relationship just for physical satisfaction, I would have gotten it by now. I'm pretty, I have a nice body, and I have a nice personality. I can flirt well, and I have a lot of guys after me. I prefer taking things slow, though, so I can really come to like the person I'll be dating. And you said "I'd go for the guy or find a guy that you can be with near you." Why can't I go for a girl that's near me? By going out with a guy near me, I'd be doing what you're saying I'm doing right now -- looking for something physical instead of something mental. |
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Feb 16 2008, 01:43 PM Post #10 |
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Well I never said you shouldn't go for the girl. It was my opinion and I just needed more info. That is what I would have done with what you had provided me until then. I see now. So you have a crush. Well, you could date her, but it's a crush. You said you loved the guy you are currently dating online and he was perfect. Well I don't know if you truly love him or not, but Love > Like. I mean I don't know. I'm not exactly good with relationships since I've never been in one, but I've heard you shouldn't date friends. It could mess up your friendship with her. |
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| gh0stg1rl | Feb 16 2008, 01:47 PM Post #11 |
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 I see now. Yeah... but my boyfriend and I probably going to make an effort to go to the same college.It's a weird relationship, my guy and I have. He'll let me do a lot of things if it makes me happy. He understands my kind of free spiritedness and my need to feel like I lived life to the fullest. What I'm thinking I might do is wait for college with my guy and have a sort-of relationship with him... and Laurel will be my main girl. I just need to think about it a lot. I would also like dating her because it would be a good experience... I'm looking for experience. |
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Feb 16 2008, 01:52 PM Post #12 |
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You're treading on dangerous ground there. I don't know what these two are like, but I know neither will like being 2nd. If you're dating both, they will fight and could end up with you not being with anyone. People in relationships don't like finding out about someone else and you not really liking them enough to stick with them. Imo, I'd go with the guy and try to get into the same college. Although that is a tough one since you wouldn't be able to be with him for awhile. What I'm seeing here is you're just going for personal satisfaction and not a real relationship. |
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| cap | Feb 16 2008, 01:54 PM Post #13 |
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Hey, if you really like the girl then go for it. Better of doing it now and seeing what happens, and see if you really do like her. If you don't go fot it, your just more likely to regret later on. |
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| Lady theori | Feb 16 2008, 01:59 PM Post #14 |
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Oh, I see... Metallix thinks Inky's in love with the boy, and she is, but she also likes the girl and wants to experiment and she wants someone there now. I see where the physical relationship comes from and why he's supporting the boy... But Inky really likes the girl, too. I've solved the mystery! This is like watching a movie. |
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| gh0stg1rl | Feb 16 2008, 02:02 PM Post #15 |
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Exactly, Hybrid. Go with what she said. It is kind of like a movie. Ahahaa. And cap-dude (and DF), I've been thinking about what you guys said and I agree... it's a long wait for college for me, and he'll be in college in two years. Experimentation can't hurt as long as I keep in touch with the guy. Once my heart settles down from all the excitement, I suppose I'll talk to it and ask it what it wants to do :> |
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