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Sep 9

I Guess Thats It

Lots of us have experienced a heart break or heartache. There are a few lucky people who are fortunate enough to never have to feel that and for some, the heartache stops soon after the end of the relationship.

But when it gets prolonged and drawn out by the other persons actions.... They are so bipolar. One minute they love you and theyre telling you they cant get you out of their head. The next minute they hate you and theyre ignoring you until you cry.

Of course im talking about me and another person here.

I really dont know how to handle this. This is a rollercoaster of emotions, and I want off.

Just wanted to get this off my chest.

Bye bye~
Posted Sep 9 2011, 05:23 AM · 2 comments
  1. Comment by KogaHarine, Sep 9 2011, 09:45 AM
    Moving on is a hard thing (especially if the one you love is still in your life in some way) but everything works out in the end. Life is mysterious and can change for the better in an instant. I know where you are coming from. Ruth is a lot like that. One minute she is kind and sweet and the next she is really harsh and cold. But I put up with it because deep down I know that it's more of a defensive thing (and possibly a test to make sure that I can handle it and be able to put up with it). Love is rarely easy. But if you stick with it and you work as hard as possible then it can blossom into something amazing. In a relationship patience is key. As with all things good things come to those who wait.
  2. Comment by Lady Miracle, Sep 9 2011, 10:03 AM
    Once you have your heart broken, there's no going back. I for one, have been unable to get back to being my actual self since my heart got broken. It took nearly a year to try and cope with the fact once and for all, though I still have random moments when I can't help remembering it.

    But why is this so? Is love really that cruel? Nope. Love isn't cruel. But the circumstances during which it comes and goes are. Love changes you, normally, for the best. When it's gone, you feel all that greatness of it slip away and that's why you feel so hollow; because love filled you and now it's gone.

    I've learned, however, that there's no actual remedy to it but to accept facts and take solace in the cherished memories it gave you. That's why I've never hated the person that broke my heart and I never will. Too many good times. Sure not all of them were that great, but the ones that were, they were out-of-this-world wonderful, and I don't think there's anything in the world I'd trade those memories for.

    Just remember, there are still millions of other people in this world who can still touch your life in a special way (or you could touch theirs). Taking a page from Pixar's Up, sincere and pure love is an adventure, and the human being NEEDS to be an adventurer. The greatest of adventurers search for the greatest of adventures and live them out fully. When they are over, they do not grieve that about it; they revel in the amazing memories of that experience. More than just that, since one adventure is over, they go in search of another. I suggest you look for your spirit of adventure --something to refresh your aching soul-- and then go off for some more adventuring. I'm sure you still have a lot of love and care to offer, just as sure as I know there will be another deserving person willing to accept it. ;)
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